Could he be cheating?
What are sure signs your spouse may be cheating?? My hubby has been acting a little weird the past couple weeks. He worked more OT in the first position he had at his new job and the past few weeks he has changed areas. He goes to work and comes home but all of a sudden he doesnt try for sex anymore he says because I give him crap for trying every night so he just stopped, he usually is practically begging me to take him to work on the weekends and tonight he says do what i want, he used to call me religiously every break and lunch and now im lucky to get 10-15 minutes a day. Says he doesnt want to be rude to the guys he works with by talking on the phone. Says living with my parents is making him miserable, which i understand. Our sex life has SUCKED since we have been here. I noticed glitter on his lip and on his face even after taking a shower. He only goes to work and comes home. He works at a big factory. Could he really cheat at work? There are no females that work in his area but I know they are around and if he is gonna cheat he will find a way. I am driving myself crazy over this! Do i just need to blow everything off and pretend like I dont give a shit? I made the mistake in a conversation one night by telling him I am almost obsessed with him, and he had made the comment "well I guess I never have to worry about you cheating on me" he is my husband I love him very much!!! We have a daughter together ( plus he has 3 other kids with 2 other women) I also have a son of my own. Who would want that baggage anyway? Am I just being paranoid?? What should I seriously be looking for as far as signs??
We have had SEVERAL talks and last week he pretty much told me it had to stop or something was gonna happen. He told me what would make him happy is me to quit being so negative and to just be happy. I am trying!! No he doesnt work later than he says he is going to. This sounds crazy but I keep track of his OT!!! I need to learn some trust!! The reason behind me acting this way is his previous job, his WHORE of a boss was trying to get with him and i almost left him over it cuz i didnt think he was doing anything to stop her. he said he didnt realize she was coming on to him and he ignored her anyway unless it was work related. HUGE DRAMA!!!!
I dont check for lipstick I have checked for cum in the underwear. He knows I can show up at his at ANY time. Also my paranoid thoughts come from dreams I have of him taking luinches and breaks with girls and sometimes driving off and having sex with them. In my dreams the girls name is usually Jessica or Angela, when I went to have lunch with him the other day a girl came out to talk to his supervisor and he said he didnt know who she was but later told me he asked his supervisor who she was and her name was…………. JESSICA. But she also married looked about 12 NOT ATTRACTIVE, but i dont know what is attractive to him anyway, his ex gf is HUGE and his ex wife looks like a crack whore! I am going to lose my mind!!!!
He knows I can check phone records so he isnt dumb enough to call anyone lol or text. I should have been a P.I. I investigate EVERTHING, its almost a fault to an extent! I have a real problem. I never had a problem until over the summer when we lived where he worked at an apartment complex.
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It does sound odd. Especially the glitter.
I don’t suggest asking him though as he would only deny it, make you feel like your being paranoid and then pick a big fight because he can’t believe you don’t trust him.
If you want to find out you need to play it smart by acting dumb.
If you don’t let on that you suspect anything he will be complacent and it’ll be easier for you to catch him out.
Do you know for a fact that he is at work when he says he is? I would have him followed.
I would like to add though, if you are lucky enough to find out this was all a misunderstanding I suggest you and your husband get a place of your own before it ruins your marriage completely.
EDIT: I just read your additional details and you sound absolutely crazy! You are obsessively insecure and need to fix it. If he does have an affair after all of this you probably drove him to it with all your crazy paranoia. Chill out.
I can tell you are worrying yourself sick about this one! As you suspect more he will only continue to act even weirder. He will pick up on the fact that you suspect something and it will push him away even more because he will know that you dont trust him. I would confront him humbly and ask what you can do to help get your spark back. Tell him that you dont feel appreciated/loved. Dont point fingers until you are sure this is whats going on. Reach out to him before its to late and neither of you have may respect/trust for each other.
Good luck
well if he gets home late that normal than he is probably cheating on you
The whole glitter thing should be the biggest red flag. It does sound as if he’s a cheater. If you really need to know, have someone else follow him, a good friend will do this for you. As for you having two children, Most real men would not consider that excessive baggage.
Check for lipstick around his fly (I am serious) and on his collar of shirt. Check for strange phone numbers in his wallet. Check the car , under the seat for underwear that isn’t yours.
Whenever there are changes in the way a man acts it could be cheating. the glitter is the most telling sign. when my ex began to change i didn’t pay too much attention to it, but wish i had. You never know if it can be changed or not once they begin cheating on you. when a man cheats on you it feels almost as if they have disconnected from you and they no longer care.
All I can say is I am so glad you are not my wife.
Yes, he is probably cheating on you because he can’t stand how crazy you have become. It seems like his choice in women is really messed up.