Do you think my husband is cheating on me? Honest opinions please.?
Ok from what I’m about to tell you, please give me your honest opinion on whether or not you think he is cheating. We have been married only a few months, and we have spent about 10 days total of those three months together. He is in the military, and right now he is stationed somewhere that wives are not allowed to live because he is finishing up school. We were together for three years and he never cheated on me, and now I’m starting to worry that maybe he has… He parties ALL the time, gets drunk almost every night and goes to bars, hotel parties etc. He is very good looking and I know that he gets hit on (because it happens even when I’m around). I would hope that he could resist the temptation, but I know when you mix temptation and alcohol sometimes things happen…I know he loves me and he married me but I can’t help having these thoughts because he is so far away and I don’t know what he is doing all the time. Sometimes when he’s out he doesn’t answer his phone when I call, and he says the music was too loud he couldn’t hear it, etc. So, without knowing him I know it will be hard to say whether he is cheating or not, but just from what you know, what do you think?
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this is so hard to answer because we don’t know him.Its easy to say "oh ya hes cheating" because hes so far away,but I have a good friend that goes away on business trips all the time and I am positive he doesn’t cheat on his wife.Hes a good guy and if you have a good guy hes not cheating.
You are obviously suspicious or you would not be asking this.Have you tried just asking him.GL
It’s always a possibilty. How about you ask HIM some questions. His answers is a hell of a lot more important than the ones you’ll get here.
first ! have you cheated? more than likely he has did the thing ! too much separation time here !
ya he is
It’s possible. Why don’t you just ask him flat out if he is?
I think he’s partying too much.
honestly - I would not assume he is cheating. Even if he is not cheating, I would be more worried about the fact that he parties ALL the time and gets drunk. That would be a big problem for me.
If you believe a person is loving they will be loving. If kind, they will be kind. If untrustworthy, they will be untrustworthy.
ya ther is possibility
I think you should ask him. I also think you would quit trying to be his mother by calling him to check up on him. You either trust him or you do not.
Who has control of the cell phone records? Check the records to see who he is calling or who is calling him. And have you asked anyone (other than him) why wives are not allowed where he is going to school? That sounds kind of strange to me - unless it’s top secret, I do not see why wives are not allowed.
You can find out a great deal just by asking him. If you ask and he gets mad and upset about it, there’s a good chance he’s cheating. If he is calm and denies it and tries to reassure you, then he’s probably not.
Sounds to me like he’s sewing some " unsown oats". But if you believe he really loves you then believe he would never do anything to hurt you. It’s all a matter of trust.
Distance is never a good thing, in a new relationship. Sounds like you need to sit down and have a talk.
spy on him or have somebody do it for you.I think he is cheating though.
I think if you really love him, and he loves you the way you love him then you don’t have to worry about anything, its takes trust to be in a marriage relationship or just any relationship. If you are worried about it why don’t you just talk to him.
I guess I’m wondering more about why you married him… but there’s no way to know for sure unless someone rats him out.
If he does cheat its only because its a pressurised environment. However he married YOU so he obviously loves you and this should mean he will not cheat. But you should trust him, i know its hard but you just have to.Sounds like your just a little insecure but you need to understand that you cant know whats always going on and do not prepare for the worst (that is him admitting cheating) because he may just be having a good time and not cheating at all. You have trust issues, try and keep occupied to take your mind off things
I can understand why you would think this but he hasn’t cheated before so this must be some kind of reassurance. But in my honest opinion anything is possible, i personally think he isn’t
that is actually very hard to say cause i know some guy’s who where in the military went out just to let loose after a long day and they don’t do anything but have a few drinks it’s when the wife can’t stop thinking about it and keeps nagging him about it is when the damage is done and the wife can’t seem to let it go so in her thinking she goes out and has an affair herself cause she thinks that her husband did when in fact he did not jealousy is a hard thing to control but we have to try. also if he has messed up he would not tell you unless the guilt really got to him or unless the other woman got pregnant by him then idk it would be up to you to decide if the relationship is worth fighting for . also if you are married and your husband is in the military it is illegal for him to have a girlfriend but if you are just dating or just together and NOT married then he is not the right guy for you
If your gut is telling you he is then most likely he is. He is a guy and alone for that matter. Mix in basic human needs and sex is one of them. But to assume is wrong since no one here know this guy and cannot account for his whereabouts. I suggest you enjoy your marriage be a good wife and have faith that he is monogamous with you unless he gives you plenty of reasons to doubt him. God bless ya kiddo
I don’t know. My son is in the military and his wife was the one doing the cheating. She would tell me. My son was never home and was cheating on her. She should have never married him. If you can not TRUST him when he is away. Then you need to leave him. Are you looking for a reason to cheat. Most military wife’s think. their better, and their always having a baby. And they think their husband is always cheating. Your husband can be right at home. And still cheat on you. You need to talk to him more now that he is away. Send love notes. Stop thinking cause he is not home he is being bad. His drinking needs to stop. Sorry if I was hard on you. But you ask for an honest opinion.
I cannot say he is cheating on you, but I will say he is not behaving like a loving trustful husband should behave. Going out to bars and drinking at all hours of the night and not being available when you call him is enough to give you concern. For starters he is not respecting his commitment to you as his wife. He instead is creating concern and anxiety for you and from this come feeling of insecurity. This is not the way a loving husband should behave and I do not care what his excuse is. You need to set him straight and tell him about your concerns without being drawn into his excuses. No excuses, he should not be out in bars and he should not be unavailable to you when you call. It is up to you to decide if you are willing to accept this type of behaviour from your husband. Maybe if you turned the tables and were not always there when he called he will learn to see how it feels. The choice is yours, stay and take it, or demand better. Good luck to you!
Hey,
Worry less. He is a guy…away…lonley…and is out with the guys.
If he is as cute and gets hit on as much as you say then you must be special too. He chose 1 great girl vs a lot of good ones.
If there are bars, hotels, etc where he is…then you can go. After all nothing wrong with you picking him up in a bar and taking him to your hotel room.
BC