My husband left to go to training for a month for his job, and he left a little less that two weeks ago. He told me on the phone tonight that he "didn’t want me to worry," but he is "very sexually frustrated." He is starting to look at the other women there and thinking "hmmm." He said that he was talking to me about his "desires" and thoughts looking at other women because he "trusts me and thinks it is a good thing that we talk about these things." He cheated on his last wife, so it is within his capacity. He then says that he cheated on his last wife and doesn’t want this to happen with our relationship. He then says that sexual relations are not allowed among trainees there, and if people are caught doing it, they will be kicked out. If he is kicked out, then I’ll find out about it and leave him (his words). This sends up a red flag. Is my husband that stupid to think that it’s a matter of trust to talk about his lust, or is this a good warning sign of infidelity?

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