How to know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?
hey guys! im in a long distance relationship with my girl whos colombian and i met her in france. shell stay there till december and we said we could meet up three times by that time. i met her in france in july and was with her 4 days. we been talkin since then everyday we both love each other she would tell me that everytime we talk but its been 2 weeks now or more i text her and she would answer me 8 hours later ( im livin in greece its only one hour aheaD). she says im the love of her life but she doesnt show that watsoever..we r both 17 and she says that if i dont doubt her about stuff she would stay with me. because for example a friend left her a facebook comment yesterday that he ”loves” her and that she could b the ”love of his life”. she said they b doing that for 4 years and they r joking with each other…anyway girls ladies.. please tell me whats really going on with her? sometimes i think that it could b her social and loose character..
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She seems to be leading you on a bit, you both live miles away and you don’t trust her so it’s never gonna work, even if she isn’t cheating and genuinely loves you, paranoia is gonna drive you insane! I would call it day and get on with it, your 17 and i know it’s cliche but there are plenty more fish in the sea? I would say talk to her but she could lie or tell you the truth, you’ll never know over the phone? I know if it was me and i only met her like a month or so ago and i saw someone telling her she was the love of his life i would get out of there, i don’t mean to sound horrible but how many guys like you does she have on the wire? That other guy could be feeling the same? Delete her number, block her on FB and move on friend! Im getting married on Friday and ive been with my girl for 3 years, when you trust someone and love them, you know it’s right! You don’t need this torture.
Lond distance relationships never work out just try asking her if shes cheating.
Look for Jizm stains on her undies
ASK HER.
If you dont ask you’ll never know.
Unless she lies =/
Anyway.
GoodLuck[:
didnt have to read any of this too say YES she is ………
Colombianas are the bomb!!!
There is a colombian saying….
Amor de lejos…… es de cuatro. Hahahahahaha
yea if its long distance and if shes not coming back ust leave her
be careful..
she might just be leading you on so she has someone to go back to if she has no one..
if any warning signs show of her cheating such as innapropriate phone calls or photographs.. END IT before u get hurt
What’s the point if you don’t trust her?
"i met her in france in july and was with her 4 days."
This is not called a "girlfriend." It’s a summer fling. Differentiating will help clear up the confusion.
She might be playing you but it is hard to tell what kind of life she has going on… like a job busy family or life going on right now. Just talk to her tell her how you feel. I’m sure if you get it out in the open with her she will tell you whats going on. Before I got married I had a guy friends that would tell me that he loved me also but just playing around also my husband didn’t like it so me and my guy friend talked and he didn’t tell me he loved me after that he told my husband he was sorry. JUST TALK TO HER ABOUT EVERYTHING! I’M SURE EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY
Good Luck
Long distance relationships NEVER work. Don’t fool yourself.
Also, love for a 17 year old girl is fleeting. It is pretty much to next guy they bump into that they get into.
Umm….believe me, it’s not love. We always ‘think’ it is love, until the next one comes along, and then we are convinced, that this time, it is really love. Then, the next one comes along.
You will love again. Trust me.
On internet stuff, don’t take them too personal, they usually mean nothing. The only way to deal with the issue is to let things be. Love is all about trust. You’ve entrusted her with something precious, if she cheats on you, you’l eventually find out.
If she is for you then she will come around besides you are just 17 keep your options open
I’m not sure your girlfriend is being totally straight with you. I would come out and ask here if you are concerned. She is giving you a REASON to doubt her sincerity by that facebook comment and you are perfectly entitled to ask her what it means. Her comment that says if you ‘don’t doubt her about stuff, she will stay with you’ is nonsense as it could be her excuse to play around without you asking any questions. Don’t fall for it! Confront her!
just asking won’t really help .In fact she will definitely deny the fact .You have to make her feel jealous .And then surely she’ll feel that you are better than her and will herself admit that she’s cheating so that you no more feel you are the best .(^^,) goooooooood luck man!
you’re both 17 and in a long distance relationship…this is too hard to make work when you’re only seeing each other once a month. i was in a long distance relationship that was really rocky because of the distance. the only reason we made it work was because we’d see each other every weekend.
because she’s not responding to your texts and calls right away makes it seem like shes not interested in you anymore. if she was, she’d see the text and respond immediately. unfortunately her responses are going to get more spread out and less affectionate if she isn’t feeling you.
you dont have to assume that she is cheating on you, she may not be. but with distance comes separation and people slip away from those they love. its just like when someone dies, it takes time to get over them but you do. if the person you love is never around to see or feel then you will eventually stop needing them and in turn caring for them.
just be honest and ask her how she is feeling. dont throw the cheating thing in her face tho because that will just piss her off. ask her nicely if she still wants to be with you or if the distance is getting to her. if you do it like that you’ll have the chance of remaining friends and possibly being together later in life.