My girlfriend cheated on me..?
she meant everything to me. we have been dating for a year and a half. we’ve had a few problems before and had simple one day break ups but nothing serious. i broke up with her last week and she had sex with a random guy the same night. she confessed to me immediately when we tried talking again. i have ignored her ever since but she constantly text and calls me. what should i do? she wants to make it up to me and she claims she regrets it.
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Sorry to hear the news. I know it hurts man . . . but, you must heal . . . try to find thing to make you feel good about yourself. Technically, people will tell you you were in a break and she can do whatever she wants . . . and to get over it.
The reality is different. So . . . she sure did not take long to get over you did she?? And, this was a predictable patter for the two of you, that suddenly took a different turn. So, yes, your feelings are real and validate. Just as valid she is free to do whatever she wanted . . . and she did. So, the truth of the matter is . . .
Your ex-girlfriend is capable of sleeping with other men, in a very quick manner. And . . how can she really make it up to you anyways . . . "I had sex with another guy and let me make it up to you somehow? really?"
If you were really meant to be together, it would not have happened. I can only share my experience in trying to work through this stuff . . . I could not get out of my head what she did. It was more about how casually she could give it away (and this is a guy talking that can separate sex and love).
My ex’s had self-esteem issues and used sex (cheating) to make them feel better . . which it never did in the end. You girl likely has some other issues that led up to this. (self-esteem, emotional needs not being met, etc.) None of them are your problems . . . these things are on her side of the street.
The 2 times this happened to me: (1) I took her back . . . never fully trusted again . . . had some resentments . . . and she strayed again. (2) did not take her back. Offered to be friends . . . told her I have much higher standards for women that I want to date vs. those I would just hook-up with and that she was not longer dating material for me and that I deserved a better woman. Then I tried to ignore her as much as possible, listened to her begging told her I forgave her and continued to wish her luck. ashe continued sleeping with otehr guys and the more she did, the better I felt about my decision. I had some fun for a couple of months then met a beautiful, fun sexy woman. There is a better future out there if you are not afraid to take the leap . . . .
you deserve better . . . a couple hours broken up . . . technically yes she was free . . but in reality . . . not.
Listen to yourself … "I broke up with her and she had sex … the same night."
You weren’t going out, you dumped her.
She could’ve had sex with who ever she wanted. So now it’s time to grow up and talk to her, that is if you still want to.