I think my boyfriend is cheating please give me an honest opinion.?
I have never been cheated on, although I have witnessed my mother cheat on her boyfriend(s). Where do I start.
I am 19 and he is 28. I have a strong feeling in my gut that he is either reaching out to other women or with his ex…
I searched him on myspace, and told him to change his status because he is not single. He refused. And refused to add me! I know this sounds pathetic fighting over myspace but its just sketchy.
He is always texting on his phone when we are together. His phone will ring repeatedly and he will ignore it over and over.
When I am at his house he is on his computer. One time I went to the bathroom and walked back in his room and he shut the Internet off immediately.
I confront him about it all the time and he gets mad and finally opened up to me and said his ex that is psycho always checked his phone and went through his emails and was crazy and possessive and controlled him all the time.
With all this said he will do the sweetest things for me he takes me to dinner. I will spend three days in a row at his house. He is a sweet guy always telling me how much he loves me.
Yet everything he does is so shady.
And everytime i go to break up with him I take it back and get back together with him.
Everytime I have this empty feeling just rotting in the pit of my stomach.
This is very painful for me.
But if you could give your opinion that would most helpful. Even if its how to get over him.
oh yeah. He makes all these expectations for me to meet. like get rid of my best friend or I cant go anywhere shit like that but If I try to do that he says no that I wont control him.
He also said in the beginning that he doesnt talk to any of his ex’s yet the other day two different ex’s one that lives here and another in another state text him.
Then last night girl that he supposidly been friends with for 10 years text him to take her to Nogalas to get meds cuz she was robbed and he agreed to it.
I told him that that is not okay? am I wrong for that? it is just not right going that far with him and just another girl….
he says the ex that lives here is engaged and likes her new boyfriend and the rock he put on her finger…yet he still talks to her when she is trying to fuck him still..
fishy?
You guys say to get rid of him I seriously feel like a knife is going through my stomach when I try. And he wont let me go.
He is not the club hoppin type. I dont know why I keep taking him back. I am not desperate I get hit on all the time when I am out and about. There is just something about him that makes me crazy feeling inside I have never been this way with any of my ex’s ever.
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From what i’ve read. He seems to be hiding something.
No, give him up. HE’S A WEIRDO ANYWAY!
I certainly would think something is going on here, sorry.
VERY FISHY.
wtf are you doing !
D U M P H I M .
hes obviously cheating and controlling, like wtf!!
SAY GOODBYE TO HIM BEFORE THE JERK GIVES YOU HERPES!
he goes to 21 and over clubs.. and you get to sit at home doing nothing… LOL.. have fun.
that is MORE than fishy. its downright obvious hes not being faithful. believe me even if hes not technically screwing these other girls, hes at the very least emotionally cheating. He should not have contact with his exs he should share his private life with you if he had nothing to hide he wouldnt mind, he shouldnt be controlling you but he is, hes way too old for you.. hes just using you, and the myspace thing, thats downright wrong. I dont care if it is "just" myspace, he should add you, change his status, and show you off all over the place, not hide you. Run as fast as you can away from this loser and get some self confidence because you should not be dealing with this crap. you deserve better.
and you wonder why his EX kept checking his stuff……girl..get rid of him….
ok you need to tell him to get up and get out!!!! this is freaking wierd and hes obviously not capable of caring for you like you seem to care about him and the relationship you are in
he’s obviously hiding something. I am going through the same exact thing. except im 29 and hes 41, his ex is the mother of his children, so he HAS to keep contact with her, however, he claims he can’t stand her etc, yet hides his phone, turns it over so I can’t see if someone calls, I have access to all his phone records so I know he has been texting her. He texts her more than me lately. Honey when there is SMOKE there is FIRE. Get rid of him. I know its so hard, Ive been dealing with this for 6 months now and I have developed feelings as well, but it’s got to stop, that pain in your stomach, will go away when he is out of your life. I’m getting rid of mine today. Thank God.
he’s obviously hiding something. I am going through the same exact thing. except im 29 and hes 41, his ex is the mother of his children, so he HAS to keep contact with her, however, he claims he can’t stand her etc, yet hides his phone, turns it over so I can’t see if someone calls, I have access to all his phone records so I know he has been texting her. He texts her more than me lately. Honey when there is SMOKE there is FIRE. Get rid of him. I know its so hard, Ive been dealing with this for 6 months now and I have developed feelings as well, but it’s got to stop, that pain in your stomach, will go away when he is out of your life. I’m getting rid of mine today. I tried to add him on Facebook and he denied my request, saying- You get all upset over dumb things other women post that are meaningless, etc..It’s just a coverup to hide his flirting. So painful. I’m done, you should be too.