He’s cheating on his girlfriend with me?
I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. I see them in school and their relationship seems great, he looks happy.
I talk to him online on rare occasions. He’s a sex-crazed teen who has been talking in very sexual manner. I tell him theres nothing between us, he says there is, like a secret love.
Head over heals for the guy, I have sex with him. Is what I did wrong. I know it is. Really, but now I filled with all these weird emotions, of guilt, jealousy, and more than just a crush. We didn’t use protection and I’m not on birth control. We used the "pull out method" if thats what is called.
I need to know what to do. What if I become pregnant? What if he’s girlfriend finds out?
What do I do?
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Do something or do nothing. Those are your options.
I know it sounds simple, but it really is that simple. Yes, you absolutely could have gotten pregnant. It’s one thing to dig a guy, but do it on the up and up. Your pangs of guilt indicate there is a conscience in there, one that you completely ignored. Further, if he’s cheating this badly on her with you, why would you be so naive to think he won’t cheat on you with someone else?
Look, you can’t change it. It happened. You can’t completely clean your conscience, but you can keep it from getting any further tarnished. Don’t let it happen anymore.
Well it really sucks being in this situation, if he is not in love with her why is he still with her? Sounds to me like he is in love with her and most likely he is only using you for sex, its never enough for a guy to have one girl. If she doesnt give him what he wants he will look for it somewhere else. If he is not willing to respect you and stop using you as a sex buddy I would leave it alone. If he would want something serious he would dump her and be with you, in this case he prefers being with her than you. You should know the answer to this question already, he is only using you. dump him immediately.
i was in a realtionship with a guy for 3 years who had a girlfriend. i loved him so much i didnt care if it hurt the other person or not. in the end he choice her over me && i was the one who got hurt.
you just have to do what your heart tells you to do.
with me my heart told me to stay and not give up cause i had a little bit of hope that one day he would be mine.
i didnt feel any guilt and i hardly got jealous (the only times i did was when we had plans and he bailed on me to go with her;or he wouldnt go places with me but went with her you know what i mean? lol)
but other then that if i had to do it again i probably would cause it made me a stronger person && i really did love him and i would have done anything to be with him/make him happy. but thats just me.
everybody is diff.
hope i helped.
get a pregnancy test,and STDs test, and let the man be
To him, its all harmless fun. If what you are saying is true, he probably is happy with his girlfriend but wants the thrill of the unknown. If he’s still wanting to see you, that might be what it is. You might talk to him and find out what his emotions truly are. That you dont want to be tagged along and will not. Being the other woman, you’re only going to piss off the girlfriend if you tell her. It might be best to tell her that he is heavily flirting with you and that you dont want her to get hurt? Things happen and people come together in weird circumstances. If you feel you really do have deep emotions for him, talk to him to see where he stands. Otherwise, he’s nothing but trouble..
You better hope your not ovulating. Because the pull out method does not work. You can still get pregnant from pre-cum, and if he got some around you vaginal area the sperm can still impregnate you, although its a very small chance. Besides that, yes you did something wrong. Cheating hurts people, horribly. And if he seems happy with this other girl, and is a sex crazed teen, he’s probably just using you. Guys will say anything, I mean secret love, really, to get into a girls pants. Especially at that age. So if you do get pregnant I hope your not looking for him to leave that other girl for you. And I hope she doesn’t find out, for her sake. Being hurt like that is something no one should ever have to go through. So overall, there really is nothing you can do. Just hope your not pregnant, and leave him alone if he seems happy. You seem young, you’ll get over it.
ppl that use the pull and pray method are called PARENTS. r u really ready to be a mom? i don’t think so. he only wants one thing from u or he would have left his gf for u. ur just a booty call for him
Important points:
You NEVER use the pull out method it can easily get you pregnant.
You NEVER have sex before dating a guy if you have a crush on him because your emotions get messed with so much.
Don’t like him; he’s a player. He is happy because he is not guilty about cheating. He will do the same to you if he got with you. He doesn’t love you, he only wants sex and goes to any lengths to get it.
You could do so much better than him, you need to get him out of your life.
You tell his girlfriend that he cheated on her with you and tell her you are sorry.
Take a pregnancy test.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
Open your eyes, this guy doesn’t care for you…if he did, he would leave his girlfriend to be with you. I bet you’re not the only girl he has on the side. Besides, if he cheats on his current girlfriend, he would definately cheat on you if you ever become his girlfriend.
Oh and since when does "pulling out" prevent pregnancy??????? That’s ridiculous. Haven’t you ever had sex ed?????
Stop being a naiive little girl. OPEN YOUR EYES. You deserve better than this situation, don’t degrade yourself like this.