I think my wife is cheating on me. I asked and she said no but I have a strong suspicion. How do I find out?
She has two mobiles and one is kept on her person at all times, especially in last 6 weeks. She often tells me she has to work a couple of hours at weekends with last minute notice. Her job is such that she can be alone with surveyors or male clients. Hiring a private investigator seems wrong but most methods probably are too. But what are those methods and how can I discretely use them?
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her phone records online. there are all kinds of mini recording devices. all kinds of mini GPS devices that u can put on the car. rent a car, wear something like shades, hat, or something and follow her. do this a couple of times and u’ll find out urself for sure in no time. i did. so be ready for the worst and hope for the best.
First of all there is no solution for mistrust. You just spoke about the cheating part only but who knows she is working hard to make life happy for both of you. What if you give her a lift sometime and pick her up so she can feel safe. Just look at your 3 fingers at yourself before showing 2 fingers to your wife. Breaking the relationship is easier than fixing it. Take a deep thought and think before you apply, whether she is co-operating you in daily life. She might be not doing anything bad at all and if you blame her then life will be a mess. So dont rush, have cool and calm and let the life move smoothly, if and when time comes and if she is not sincere it will come forward to you without any hardwork. So keep moving life as usual and be happy with your wife.
take her phone so she thinks she lost it, and has to get a new one. Then you can see all the texts she is getting.
The question is do you still want to be her husband?
The cheating is secondary. If you knew the answer to the first question, you wouldn’t be looking so hard for the answer to the second.
Your relationship is already a mess. I can tell just by the fact that you’re asking the question. Marriage is built on trust and you don’t have it for your wife.
If you don’t trust her you don’t have much of a marriage anyway.
Just sounds like she is a loyal worker and needs to have a phone on her to be sure she can get the call when they need her. Nothing going on here.if a spouse is around men a lot it can cause problems, but, its her work, so let it go.
There’s already a trust issue here.
If you do hire an investigator and they find no evidence of impropriety, what do you do then? It’s impossible to prove a negative, so will you let it go? Then what? You will have to live with the fact that you lost that trust and it may not be so easy to get it back.
If you’re really intent you can find PI’s from the yellow pages. I will say that the opportunity for her to cheat is there. That doesn’t mean she is though.
well, someone i know suspected her husband of cheating, he obviously denied it, but she still felt something was wrong, in the end she got my dad and her brother to follow him one day in a taxi cab, they got a cab, got it to park just a little bit down the street from her house , and when her husband said he was going out they simply followed him,sure enough he got caught red handed!
something you could do… less expensive i would say too.
Or you said she has two phones right, one she keeps on her at all times… switch the sim cards on her…but you’ll probably get caught out on that one…
Hope it all works out for you
The question you need to ask yourself is … what would you do if you got proof that she’s cheating?
If you would split up with her, and it’s important to you to come out well in the divorce proceedings, then you should definitely hire a PI.
The chances are VERY HIGH that she’s cheating, and the high cost will come back with interest when the evidence is presented to the court.
well unless she’s a heart or brain surgeon she doesn’t need to keep her phone on her person at all times. they say that’s one of the clues to find out if your spouse is cheating.
hire a p.i.
i think she’s having an affair.
Check out her panties for come stains
A couple of things you can do on your own are trade cars with a friend and follow her , go to radio shack and get a phone tap, or set her up to where you know she will try to meet this guy and follow her .
bug her computer and get the passwords for her cell phone accounts, sucks but if you need piece of mind do what you gotta do, now log into her cell phone account and you can see the calls shes making, read email, all this stuff really sucks, after you clear her (hopefully), delete the program, trust me, you will regret it if you dont, if she is cheating and you want to divorce, hacking her computer is probably illegal in your city and might not hold up in court for divorce.