I just found out my ex-girlfriend cheated on me……….?
I was with my ex girlfriend for 2 years and throughout that time I thought she was faithful 100%.We broke up for other reasons not related to infidelity. We’ve been broken up for 3 years now but I am in complete shock because her best friend told me she was cheating on me when I was with her. I don’t know what to do. I mean yeah she is in my past now but I got a sense of distrust for women now that I found this out…..
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Nothing you can do now.
Time to move on. No sense in stressing about it now.
What am not getting is what use did the so called best friend have by telling you that she cheated. I read malice here and beside if its true, you should lets something that happened in the past affect what you have always believed. People are different and should be judged differently
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its def hard to have found something like this out. since you two have been apart for 3 yrs, there’s nothing to be said…but i would ques, why would the friend tell me this in the first place. i mean 3 yrs ago and now she tells u…all females are not the same…u have to keep an open ear and an open mind. dont be naive, just careful
Ok, one. We don’t all cheat, same as men.
Two, you guys have been broken up for 3 years, there isn’t anything you can do about it. Gotta let it go, hon.
Sometimes us girls tend to cheat when we don’t feel fulfilled in a relationship. I had a bf a few years ago that ignored me all the time and never cared about what I did in life. So I looked elsewhere. *Not saying you’re anything like that* but maybe she just needed something more that she thought was missing.
Did she tell you that she cheated on you? Or did she admit it? Or is this a friend that may, or may not, be telling the truth? Either way, don’t worry about it. The relationship is over and she’s been out of your life.
If one girl cheats it doesn’t mean the next one will. Have some confidence that she loves you and will not cheat on you. Without trust a relationship cannot work; therefore, you need have trust.
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You broke up because she really didn’t want to be with you. If she really cared she wouldn’t have cheated on you. Don’t use this as an excuse against other woman, after all most woman are the ones that cheated on and they still can find some good man down the road. If you had never found out, would you have mistrust, or is this just a way to say "feel sorry for me". Just be glad that you are not with her now and that you have moved on.
You can’t judge all women just cause one cheated on you. Let go of the past and move on.
I understand how you actually feel. But it is unfair for YOU to refuse to fall in love again because of the past. Loving and caring are amazing wonderful feelings…. it is indeed HEAVEN to fall in love and be loved. Let go of everything about ur ex then be open for a new love. But of course there is no absolutely perfect relationship, both partners have to work out for it. Be mature enough to go through the perflexity of a love affair.Good luck, Enjoy life responsibly.
The truth is, most men and women cheat. The majority of marriages end in divorce and the number 1 cause is infidelity. I guess it’s our natural instinct to want to spread our seed around to ensure the survival of our species. If you ever want to have any sort of long term relationship you have to have trust or it simply will not work. My girlfriend and I have been together for 12 years (I know, when are we getting married, right? Heard that before.) and if we didn’t absolutely trust each other we wouldn’t have lasted 12 days. Being faithful is something that takes dedication and commitment. Sitting there wondering if your partner serves no purpose but driving yourself crazy. That’s no way to live your life. You could sit and dwell on alot of negative things that may or may not happen or you could stay positive and be prepared for adversity but have faith that everything will be alright. If you’re with someone and you have a legitimate reason to think that they cheated (not just your own paranoia) then cross that bridge when you get to it.
OMG dont let this mess you up shes your ex and leave it there. Theres always a few bad apples that fall from the tree and it seems her and her mate are 2 of them. Relationships are hard even the best ones and people dont realise the pain they put others through. Ive been in some terrible relationships drug abusers, abusers in general last boyfriend cheated on me i never once cheated on any of them. But you have trust those you get involved with untill they give you a reason not to. Love and trust go hand in hand so if you havent got 1 then you will never have the other. take no notice carry on with your life be happy that the bad apple didnt poision you and one day you will meet miss right
we are not all bad girls
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Bumble B says:
January 28, 2010 at
Sometimes us girls tend to cheat when we don’t feel fulfilled in a relationship. I had a bf a few years ago that ignored me all the time and never cared about what I did in life. So I looked elsewhere. *Not saying you’re anything like that* but maybe she just needed something more that she thought was missing.
ok honestly if your not getting fufilled in a relationship, slap the idiot upside the head and tell him to pay attention to you or your gonna leave. cheating is not the answer to your problem or loneliness and its an indication that you need to break up with this guy.
And to answer the other question, its sad to hear but are you really gonna believe what a girl who was one of your ex’s friends? For all you know she didn’t cheat was thinking about talking with you and shit and the friend didn’t like you as much and decided to spead a rumor that would make that impossible. so much drama possibilities. My advice… don’t spaz out at her until you have answers (assuming you need them answers). Talk it out with your ex and try to be reasonable about it all. Do not just openly ask her cuz obviously she will go into defense mode and run for the hills (unless shes odd like that and doesn’t really care). Either way don’t pin every girl you see as being a cheater. And if they do, take the high road and hopefully they will realize they fucked up and it will torment them.