Comments on: my husband works away from home. i found a condom in his jacket pocket .we don’t use condoms. is he cheating?

By: Mr Warrior

Mr Warrior — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

I dont think u need to ask this question. You already know the answer.
If YOU do not use condoms.
Why was there one in his jacket pocket? Its because he is cheating.
There is no other explanation.

By: Rosee

Rosee — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

You must confront him. Even 50 year olds can lie and cheat. If he is lying and cheating you should exit.

By: Barb Outhere

Barb Outhere — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

Can you think of any reasonable explanation that he might have had, to have that condom in his pocket? No? Well deal with the reality, not a dream.

By: BUNDLE o' PROBLEMS

BUNDLE o' PROBLEMS — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

guuuuuurrrlll he is probably cheating on you. Dont sleep with him again until he gets tested. Test yourself, my husband gave me chlamydia and gonorrhea. We were together for so long. Do what you need to do, but just make sure he doesnt pass any diseases on to you!!!!

(Fabricated this story a bit, but hey it could be real!! im just making a point :/ )

By: Claire

Claire — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

If you don’t use them, there is absolutely no reason for him to have one. Confront him.

By: Blackhawks2

Blackhawks2 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

I am so sorry! I think you deserve better than that. I hate to say it but once a cheater always a cheater. Just because you are 50 does not mean you can’t find happiness with someone who loves and respects you! Dump the loser and go find someone who deserves you! Good luck!

By: IslandArtiste

IslandArtiste — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

I’m so sorry!
I think you know the truth of it!
It’s not too late to make a fresh start and leave this serial cheater - you will be better off, with peace of mind!

By: holaaanot

holaaanot — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

omg same thing happened wit mi mom and dad she found a condom in his suitcase and they dont use them, and he said that he just picked them up toshow her that they were handin them ou to kids and stuff.w.e sorry but ur 2 old to be doing the divorce thing AGAIN mabey u shudd put a used condom in ur side of the bed c how he feels

By: Capricorn

Capricorn — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

If he has cheated on you in the past, it’s a safe bet he is cheating on you now. If you found one condom in his jacket pocket, then he was thinking of cheating on you or had already done the deed and the one you found was left over.

If you and him do not use condoms there is no reason he should have one in his jacket pocket. I would have shown him the condom right then and there.

By: bergy10

bergy10 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 04:48:10 +0000

Yeah definitely cheating. Sorry