Should I worry if my girlfriend is cheating on me?
I met my girl on a chat line and she lives about six hours away from me…. now when we first met and i sent her pics she said i was not her type…. Than I hit her with a txt and she told me that she was very hungry so i bought her a meal…. that night she asked me if I wanted to be her man I said yea since than I have been paying all her bills cause she don’t have a job… now 2 days before she comes to see me some guy calls me who she had been telling me was her cousin and living with her and tells me that he is not her cousin that she is using me for my money and when she comes out to see me she doesn’t have any plans to have sex with me or be physical with me at all. of course she deny’s it so she’s been out here for a couple of days and i have been so miserable with her she shows me no affection doesn’t want to have sex and she say’s she doesn’t kiss and we don’t even sleep in the same bed we go to bed every night around 12 o clock and she always hit me with a guilt trip telling me how much she loves me and that’s the only time she shows affection when ever she sits on the couch she keep her distance, what should i d?
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OMG dont waste your time !
shes a gold digger dont pay her bills .
shes def. cheating,
why are guys so gullible ! ?
You have your suspicion.
Don’t second guess your instinct.
well get tested for stds.
Yea I think she is cheating. Im so sorry.
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is this a serious question WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!
she refuses to touch you and the only ever time she shows affection is saying she loves you once a day
you got usssseeedddddddd. now get the f* out of there now and maybe shoot her up a bit for being such a bitch
you got played. kick her to the curb. sorry to say but you a dumb A$$.
um i vote you dump her. if youve been paying all her bills and still getting no affection….she not the one. sorry!
From what your saying, it looks like she’s not being truthful or loyal to you. I would leave this relationship asap. It looks to me like she is just using you for your money.
I understand.
Ignore her, treat her in a bad way, and you are gonna have sex with her xD
the least she can pay for you paying all her bills =D
This is coming from a girl
dump her shes lying!!!!!!
i think that you should dump her… find a girl that won’t make you pay for her find a girl who wil want to share the pay
find a girl would will want to get close and who might want to make love.. .you know what to do
only read the first line and theres already something wrong with this, u met her on a chat line
Here is what I think went down.
So you met this woman who has no job. She already sounds like a big lazy turd. You then start to pay her bills. She was probably looking for someone to do that and well unfortunately you were the sucker. That is not her cousin, but probably the boyfriend she had while she was cooking up this scheme. She is using you and had plans to use you the moment she met you.
I would get rid of her, and fast because she is not someone you would want to be around. I would also immediately stop paying her bills. I can’t believe you didn’t see this one coming!
1. call the person aka fake cousin back and ask him if he is her boyfriend, and other things that she might think about u.
2. if its pretty obvious she is cheating on u break up with her in a silent way like when she calls u do not pick up, if she texts u dont text back unless u say sumthin like i dont feel like talking to you rite now.
3. she will probabl show up at ur house and ask u questions like why dont u wanna talk to me or sumthin so when she rings the doorbell look out the windows to see if its her if it is close the shades and then she will get that u dont want her anymore
Money trouble causes restrictions, the worst thing you can do is stop giving her money. Let her other man mind her since he was bold enough to bring forth the situation. Thank goodness you were able to recognize it and come to terms with it. It can be sometimes frightening to swallow the truth pill, how convincing can this relationship be? Her actions clearly states the truth.
you should really break it off.when your not feeling good about a realtionship and you have that feeling that your partner may be cheating…guess what…its probably true.if the guy admitted all that to you you should listen to him.i dont want you getting hurt so please listen to me.ive seen peolp stay by a person just becasue they love them but if that other person doesnt love you back,then why stay with them?right?she is treating you so cold its so move on.find a girl that really wants to be with you.there are so many stds in this world.it would be a shame if you got one because of her.BREAK UP WITH HER.SHE DOESNT DESERVE YOU.OK.hope you listen before its too late
Think about it, you pay all her bills, you show her affection and love, yet get the cold shoulder and get nothing in return. Why would anyone want to be with someone that way? She is just using you. Take it from someone who has been used before. Leave the B*tch and cut off all ties. She doesnt care about you she just says that so you continue paying for her things. Move on and know you can do so much better, Im sure you are an amazing person, just be patient and someone great will come around and give you all the love and attention you give them.
hey dude this is coming from a guy in a tight spot with his girl atm. I personally know it is hard to get rid of someone you love to death but know that you cant be with them any longer. My girlfriend is always down in the dumps no matter what i do to try to perk her up even when i try to please her sexually and show major affection (as if in movies) she just denies me… I think money has an effect on everyone im currently paying for my girlfriend to have a phone to text other guys. feels great right? on top of that she has a mentall disorder that causes her to freak out over nothing. A guy with aids(pure rumour not true) came over sat on one stool and left. She burned the stool and is scrubbing everything with bleach and is getting tested for the 3rd time now. If your having one problem witha girl (obviously not something small) you should shut off all feeling for her… then leave her nicely.. In the end she will realize she messed up. and you may get her in the end. only time will tell good luck.
I’ve had almost the exace same experience except i grew up with my ex wife. I paid her way through college paid for her current house. paid for her hotel nights while she supposedly had the place “exterminated” and i was away on work. loved this woman to absolute death. got a call she said she was pregnant and we had been trying for 2 years! the child came out to be black (not racist in any way) and we had her tested. obviously not mine i paid the huge hospital bill and divorced her. I later found out she had been cheating on me since high school with the same guy. Theres no point in cheating or having sexual intercourse with more than one person especially if that one person isn’t loyal. Break it off with that girl, she may have personall problems u wont find out about till later making her completely different from what you know but dont start something you would’ve rather died than started.
I’m not sure, but be careful! Were guys and we tend to be wrong about this kind of stuff! We always think our girlfriends are cheating but they really aren’t. You need solid proof, which may require some snooping. But if you trust your girl then don’t worry. Many cheaters get sloppy and will get caught eventually.
No, you deserve way better. I know how you feel whether you should forgive her or not but if she really loved you it would have never happened. Really… You deserve better…
I can answer you by a saying:
If love is not staying beside you, let it go….. it was not yours.
Advice: don’t be jealous.
From this point forward all the bad things starts in a couple.
Everybody is innocent untill proven guilty?
Stop blowing in the wind dude.
Have you ever hear of the word “”faith”"?