Should I tell my co-worker that her husband is cheating on her?
She is not only someone I work with but also one of my neighbors. A few friends and I saw her husband kissing another girl at a bar while he was supposed to be working late at his job. (we were at a bar in a different city, so we might not see it again) They have been married for over ten years, do you think I should let her know, or just let it take it natural course?
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Honestly? I would not tell her. Number 1, it really isn’t any of your business what is going on with them. That is a personal problem and it is for them to work out.
Would you like it if someone interfered with your personal business? I think not.
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Hell yeah tell her. If you don’t and she finds out that you didn’t she will wonder why you didn’t.
Many will tell you not to say anything..But not me… This guy is opening his wife up to the risk of HIV or other diseases and the wife deserves to know..Perhaps an anonymous note on her desk??
Chances are, she already knows…and if she doesn’t, she will soon.
I’m a firm believer that these things eventually come to be known.
And It’s not your place to be the one…
let someone else tell her…
Wow, tough question.
She is your friend - so, I guess it comes down to who are you loyal to? Her or her husband?
If the tables were turned, would you want your friend to tell you if your husband was with another woman?
You’ll have to be sensitive and maybe she knows??? But I think that you need to tell her in a gentle and caring way. And whatever you do…..do not discuss the conversation with your other friends. What is said between you and she needs to remain that way.
Do not tell her yourself. She will find out eventually, and it is going to hurt enough without adding the blow to her female pride right away. Maybe tell one of her close female friends and let her be the one to be the bearer of the bad news. Because, like you, I do think that she needs to know. But if the two of you are not close, then telling her yourself would put her in a very awkward position.
I would have to tell her. A lot of people would say that’s the wrong decision, but my ex husband was cheating on my for a long time and a lot of his friends knew and they always said after the marriage. I’m so sorry we should have told you. I remember me being so angry that no one told me! That’s what I was the most upset about! That no one told me, maybe I should have seen the signs but when people knew and didn’t tell me it killed me inside. I think you should tell her, she deserves to know.
It’s hard. On one hand -you don’t want to get into their business and on the other hand -you probably really want to tell your co-worker. Why not speak to him and let him know that you saw them kissing as that if he does not tell her, you will!!! Either way, it’s not an easy decision.
Is she a close friend? Will you knowing and not telling negatively affect your close relationship with her? If the answer to these questions is no, keep your nose out of it because it is none of your business.
I would let her know, but most people won’t appreciate it. It could cause some serious issues and drama. I would want someone to tell me. I think it’s a decision you need sit down and think about for a while.
I agree with letting the husband know you know…sneaky way to get him to confess but hey that should work!
I would tell them. I do not tolerate a spouse cheating, whatsoever. I would, more than likely, tell on my best friend if he was willing to do that. I would want to know, if it was me.
girl don’t say anything about it cuz then the new female will be living next to you and unless you like her you don’t want her in your neighborhood. think about if you want to have her as your neighbor before you say anything
one time my baby daddy’s homeboy was caught kicking it with another female and when she tell him she knew he kicked her to the curb and move the new lady in. i don’t like the new female and she live in our apartment complex i always see her out at the community bbq pit and i just say Hey girl and i go on my way.
so you gotta think about youself first
she maybe in a grey area where she has doubts but not sure…so leave a note or just have coffee with her and raise the topic front on.
No. He doesnt deserve the anonymous play and she doesnt deserve to look like a fool, additionally, she could pick up a disease from him. Document as much fact as you can, times, places and drop her an anonymous note