My boyfriend likes to get blown buy guys is that cheating on me?
Hello I have a question, my boyfriend sometimes not all the time likes to get blown by guys no recip or anything else happens. He hasn’t done it in a few weeks maybe because I live with him now but still likes to look up possibles. Is this consider cheating? should I worry? Should I let it go? And yeah I am bi too and I have his full support if I want to go out with a girl. So where should I draw the line? I know he isn’t gay that is very very clear. He has been top alway when he has done it which was 2 months ago but never ever has done bottom or sucked him self. Please advice!
No he isn’t ga. We are both bi and I agree I think we already have that open relationship. I use to swing and so did he, we still speak about it and think we might sometime give it a thought about swinging together. So I am trying to figuere out if I should call him on it or let it go afterall he doesn’t call me up on mine because I openly tell him about it.
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Its only cheating if you deem it so. If it doesn’t bug you then it’s fine. If you trust him not to leave you for someone else and your not jealous it really shouldn’t be a problem. Especially since he doesn’t mind if you do it. You should draw the line with whatever makes you uncomfortable, remember though if you draw that line your not allowed to cross it either. You should talk and agree upon it’s no emotions just for fun, no dating style hookups, and that you come first.
Maybe you two should just have an open relationship and see how that goes and in the end maybe you two arent meant to be together.
yes that is cheating!! I can’t see how you would see it otherwise. leave him.
Wtf…? You’re boyfriend is gay…or bi…which is still gay…
I think he is not cheating on you. I think you should have a talk with him with whats going in your mind, it will clear every thing out.
Your boyfriend is gay. Getting blown by anyone but you is cheating.
oral sex is still sex!
you and him need to get it clear. my wife and i had a talk about things like this. shes bi and i don’t mind if shes with girls cause thats not something that she can have or get from me. if i wanted to be with a guy it’d be ok cause its not something that she could give me. but as long as the other knows about it then its ok