I cheated on my wife with her best friend what should I do?
I cheated on my wife with her best friend, we have been married for a year now and things seem to have cooled off between us. I am not sure what to do, her best friend is super hot but and I have always wanted to do her but what should I do about this? If I tell my wife she will kill me and I hate to loose a good thing or should I say nothing and keep seeing her friend.. After all what she doesn’t know can’t hurt her can it?
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I say knock the bottom out of it while you can. Your wife WILL find out sooner or later so go ahead and get another, secret checking account, put your most valuable items in a u-storage and go ahead and put the nastiest, meanest most psychotic divorce lawyer in town on retainer now (so your wife won’t be able to hire him).
Yee-ha!
divorce your wife and marry her friend.
I am so lucky you are not my husband!
why did you get married in the first place? you took vowes to be faithful and honest now admit your doings and face the punishment
Cut your wife loose and marry her best friend. Its only a matter of time before she finds out….so you better be ready to pay the piper when that happens.
Yeah, Rusty! Keep using it ’til it falls off!…..LOSER
The truth always comes out in the end. You can either tell her and accept the consequences now, or you can wait 10 years down the road when you’re further into it, probably have kids, and have more to lose. You need to tell her now. She’s about to lose her best friend AND her husband so be prepared.
Go get a rusty knife and cut your nuts off…
You are playing a very dangerous game here, i had a male friend who has done exactly the same as you are now and god is he regretting it. The thing is, you first need to think long and hard about what it is you really want. Do you still love your wife? Are you no longer attracted to her? What is it that her best friend has to offer that she doesnt? Are there kids involved? Trust me the grass is never greener on the other side and is this really worth losing everything you have built up over the year? She will eventually find out and when she does you will be gone.. and guess what the friend will no longer be interested in you either. It is one big game to her, she likes you because she cant have you as it stands right now. I am sure that if you told your wifes mate that you wanted to tell her about the affair she would run a mile no? For god sake weigh up what is wrong in your marriage first and work on it! If it is past this then leave her and do her the biggest favour you can as your betrayal quite frankly is inexcuseable. How would you feel if your wife was doing your best mate? Think about it…
You are playing with fire and are soon to get burned. What’s in the dark will eventually come to the light. I hope you prepared for the outcome of possibly loosing your wife. You should ask yourself was the whore of a friend really worth loosing your wife. That’s really messed up on your part and her friends part. You committed adultery without any remorse, unbelievable.
Sounds like to me you are a guy with no morals, no character and no guavas…..
"man up"….. you state you "hate to lose a good thing" versus a "hot thing…i.e whore?…..
I you and the hot thing deserve each other …and you need to tell your wife! That’s IF …YOU really have any guavas at all!!
If you would "hate to lose a good thing", you should have never cheated in the first place. And to add insult to injury, you sleep with her best friend. Give her a divorce so she can find a man that will respect her.
well if she doesnt know it wont hurt her… but its possible she could find out because most girls cant keep their mouths shut(not in a bad way we just like to gossip lol) so even if you think she hasnt told anyone… im sure she has!!
you have a few choices…
you can do the mature responsible thing and a) tell your wife, stop seeing her friend and hope/try and salvage and work things out among the two of you… or b) tell your wife you’ve met someone else and yes hurt her in the begining but save her from finding out herself and REALLY breaking her heart.
or you can do the reallly awful and VERY SELFISH thing and not tell your wife and keep seeing her friend which will most likely end up with the result of you losing both of them!!!!
your poor wife………..you and her ex best friend are scum.
tell her the truth to show some sort of character she at the very least deserves to know from her husband mark my words she will find out.
you would hate to loose a good thing sorry buddy you should of thought about that before screwing your wife’s friend.
you have ruined all her faith in all her relationships not just men but friends so look at what she has lost.
you make me sick
Why are you posting that question? you already have your mind made up lol
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WTF, I don’t fucking understand damn you!! You just married in years ago, and you want her bestfriend?!?! Whats the point? Why do you want marry your wife in first place if you knew that her bestfriend is super hot! Your wife will NEVER NEVER NEVER forgive her bestfriend and YOU! both of you are both is horrible BETRAYED peoples!! Your wife will HIT on your life big times, you better tell her or fill divorce without wife know why
"her best friend is super hot and I have always wanted her"
No wonder things seem to have cooled off. There is nothing more deadly to a relationship than jealousy, distrust, disloyalty, betrayal… and if you wife knows that you have the hots for her best friend, she is bound to be cool with you.
We are all surrounded by attractive people. Often more attractive than our partner. But what sets our partners above everyone else is that you love your partner, they are your chosen one, and if you are truly committed to your marriage, then you can acknowledge that there other attractive people but CHOOSE not to act on your attraction. Stay faithful. Its a choice you make when in a relationship with someone you supposed love.
Not just run off and f*ck the next hot chick who catches your eye. After one year? Sounds like you were never committed to your marriage in the first place.
There is NO WAY your wife will forgive you for sleeping with her best friend. And some "friend"! Thats a double betrayal. You are both scum. Your wife needs to kick that friend and you to the kerb, and trust me she will. The "friend" will eventually gossip to someone else about the sexual conquest…cause thats what women do… and it will get back to your wife eventually…. So man up, and admit your betrayal, apologise and get out of your wife’s life and let her find a man who REALLY loves and respects her.
Add: Yobnoj - well said! You really are a man who has learnt a lot about women!
Love how you said "I always wanted to do her"! Well, YOU take YOURSELF AND MISS PIGGY and GO FAR FAR AWAY and GO be pigs together. YOU BOTH DESERVE ONE ANOTHER!!!! SHAME ON HER BEST FRIEND AND MORE SHAME ON YOU !!EWWWWW
It depends…are you an a$$hole or a FU#$ING A$$HOLE?
There’s a difference you know?….’things cool off with the wife’…that is both yours and her fault…but one has the most here.
The fact that you cheated on your wife tells me that you probably have a small piece of a moral compass. Do you feel like you’re stabbing a knife on her back and she doesn’t know it? If you do, then stop…divorce her, let her be and she may find a guy with who she could actually be happy with….someday. Save whatever bit of honor that you have left.
If you don’t, one day she will find out and she will finally feel that knife…it’s like a sharp nauseating pain in the pit of your stomach….have you ever had that? Would you like if she was the one cheating on you?
Or…and this is hard to achieve, stop all that BS with that POS woman with who you mess with, and don’t ever EVER tell her. Keep this within you to the grave.
The friend is hot ah? First of all, she’s not a friend anymore….she’s something that you pull out of the bottom of a shoe. If it was with someone else, a complete stranger…it would be different. She knew your wife, your wife might have even trusted her.
Do the ‘man’s man’ thing, let her be. If she is a good thing then…you are a bad thing, does she deserve you?
You are already an a$$hole, don’t be the other thing.
you are a real miserable person and your wife friend is a real scum
actually you both are scum obviously you want to keep doing your wife
friend form hell let me tell you your wife will find out and I hope she brake
your balls you are a no good person
You are blinded by lust. She is so hot? That’s your justification? Beauty is only skin deep. You can lose it too like wealth. I hope your wife finds out the truth. You betrayed your wife with her best friend… What a sad thing but she does not deserve to live a lie while you seem to be capable of brushing off guilt. It’s outrageous. I feel sorry for your wife.
YOU are a sad husband to cheat on your wife , with her beast friend that even makes it worse you should com down about the h- friend that ain’t her friend if she did that and oh my god your her husband , why did you even marry her . you want your cake and eat it to . don’t you remember your candle yous lit makes it harder when yous got married that one candle yous lit together was yous 2 people becoming one.da
You can tell your wife or not tell her but you should definitely cut things off with her friend. You say this chick is your wife’s best friend? But she screwed her over by sleeping with her husband within the first year of her marriage? What makes you think she won’t screw you over at a later date? Come to think of it, tell your wife. It’s better that she finds out sooner rather then later, and you def want her to hear it from you over any other source. MAYBE you can salvage your marriage, but you need to start seeing it as "a good thing" and take appropriate steps to build and protect it.
You just ruined your wife’s friendship with her best friend and shared yourself with someone else that was only reserved for your wife and no one else. You should tell her and let her decide what happens from there. It’s not fair for you to live your life experiencing other woman without her knowledge of it. I am sure she disapproves and she really didn’t have a best friend in the first place. Good luck on doing the right thing!
Um dude, look at how these ladies have answered your question. If you think they are mad your wife will be a million times more pi$$ed off. It’s wise never mess with a woman’s emotions or her best friend. You are sunk, she will find out and you will moving your stuff out at 4am wondering " was her friend really worth all this?" The answer is hell no! At least give her the truth don’t lie. Don’t ever lie to a woman that loves you that is worse than anything you can do. She might get over the cheating but she will never forget the time you lied to her and she will make you pay for it the rest of your life.
what is so good about things that have cooled off. man you make no sense!
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Wow, what with having to juggle a wife and a girlfriend PLUS having to fulfill your husband’s fantasies, you sure have a lot on your plate. Maybe you might like to space your fake questions out a bit more so the fact that it’s all made up is not completely obvious. Here’s your other one, in case you forgot:
How can I fulfill my husbands sexual fantasy?
My husband has been wanting to have sex with a pregnant women but the problem is we both do not want the burden of having a child and I am not willing to permit him having sex outside the marriage. So I was thinking of getting pregnant and then wait about five, so he can have his sexual fantasy, and then getting an abortion. Is there anything wrong with this. I really want to please him, he has always been a wonderful husband and we both love each other so much.
Loser. I hope your wife finds out and divorces your unfaithful ass. "What she doesn’t know can’t hurt her"? Are you serious?
the funni bullshit bout dis shit is that it happened 2me…and trust me it ALL depends on your REAL reasons 4 doing it 3 x’s outta 20 she WILL leave you, but baby if it’s unconditional love she will find away thro some pain heatache and tears on BOTH yall prt to try to start over. I started over with mine and things hurt like FUCK!!! cant hve any intimate moments with his ass without seein in my head him giving the same pleasure to my x-best friend. jus y would a person do that? c’mon bruh. you finna go thro alot and ido mean ALOT of bullshit but is your wife worth goin through all the maddness and pain YOU created in her mind? think about all the aspects gud luck dude cuz its finna be SATANS ROLLERCOASTER