Why do I have so many dreams of my girlfriend cheating on me?
So I’m currently dating the perfect girl for me. We were best friends first, for almost 5 months. Dating a month. We’re both in love.. I know it’s early but we are.
I’ve had maybe 6 or 7 dreams that I caught her cheating on me with somebody else. I know she NEVER would, but I just can’t seem to stop dreaming about it. Why??
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No one is prefect.
You are in love, you can’t speak for her.
You are insecure.
Never is forever.
You are obsessive.
you are just paranoid
you’re insecure. hah.
Have you been cheated on before? Maybe you’re afraid of the possibility.
they do say dreams come true.
You have probably been worrying about it subconsciously.
u dreamed about it the first time, u kept thinking about it b4 u sleep. this will make ur relationship bad. b4 u sleep, drink some milk and think about the good things about her.
who knows why. dreams are weird. dont let that effect your relationship. it sounds like youre both very happy, so why ruin that over something that only happens in your sleep?
Your dreaming of it because its your biggest fear at the moment, your nervous about it and your thinking about it too much. so spend more time with her, have fun and forget about it.
you are probably insecure about your relationship and feel you dont deserve her and she’ll find someone new. dont worry about the dreams just treat her well so she doesnt leave u for someone better.
relax…you’re just paranoid. take a deep breath, if you really love eachother then she would never do that. its just a dream, its not realistic
becuse you love her so you dont want her to cheat on you
well maybe you’re just worried and that’s why you keep dreaming about it-but at the same time maybe it’s really happening. i dont mean to sound rude but sometimes dreams do tell us stuff like that.
You are just feeling a little inadequate. It is probably because you value her so highly. When you realize that she values you as much you will stop having those dreams. (btw - YOu are NOT inadequate)
Im thinking you don’t trust her.
Sometimes your dreams tell the future.
Plus, never say never.People change.
IDK, maybe its just a guy thing, because my boyfriend has dreams like that all the time, and I would never cheat on him!!!
my hubby does the same…it doesn’t matter what I tell him, how I act, how I show my love…He is hurt by a relationship before me, and is scared that I’ll do the same as the girl before me…
10 years into the relationship, and marriage has not ceased his dreams.
It’s either 1) Your subconscious/instinct is telling you something is up or 2) You think your relationship is too good to be true. When you are in love, you are really vunerable so doubts may enter your mind.
Dreams are just dreams. Don’t try to read more into them than they are. Sounds like you might have trust issues……maybe you are not ready to trust others or yourself.
I am guessing that you are just paranoid.
I’d tell her about the dreams you’ve been having, and see her reaction.
Like I said, I think you’re just paranoid that she is, but you never know!
Your overthinking about losing your perfect girl and thats totally normal I wouldnt think of it as a problem unless it is a gut feeling that you think she may be seeing other men.Dont worry about it thought it happens when you fall in love.
maybe you don’t think you’re worthy of her or you have insecurities from something that happened to you in the past. i wouldn’t worry too much…dreams often don’t make sense.
dreams like that usually reflect your biggest fears. perhaps you love her so much and is so afraid to lose her that even though you trust her, subconsciously, you fear losing her to someone else.
Well it could be because your maybe a lil scared inside that she might be. If its wiht the same guy in ever dream then i maybe it is a sign. My dreams give me signs about things that could be happening now or will be. Im not crazy i swear it just happens and im not the only one. So if i were you i would try to get that possibility out of my head and realizes she perfect and nothing is going to go wrong =)
its just a dream..if you keep thinkin shes cheating it can lead into arguments which will efect the realtionship really bad
Because she is.
I’m just messing with you dude. You’re just paranoid, chill out.
Sometimes when we have dreams like these, it has nothing to do with our partners and more to do with ourselves.
Are you feeling insecure about something in your relationship or something going on in your life? Have you been tempted? Are you feeling guilty about something with this girl?
1.Because you are afraid of losing her. Keep her close.
2.Maybe its a coincidence.
Hey… you are really insecure… just be a normal person and trust her… that’ was a relationship is all about…
probably just worrying☺
She’s banging your friend.
Your worried about it.
If you were in love, you wouldnt be.
Your fear are getting translated in the form of dreams, all your thoughts and feelings are an indication of that
In your subconscious lies a deep and strong feeling of insecurity.You say that she is the perfect girl..that means that still you dont believe how a girl so special can be with you,also demonstrating low self-esteem. I recommend you to relax walk to your girlfriend give her a big hug and a kiss and ask her if she trusts you..then give a her another big kiss.
ps.This is just in your mind and only you can solve this
that means you love her so much…don’t worry nothing bad gonna happened…
You’re probably just worried and you obviously love her so much that her cheating on you would be the worst thing that could ever happen to you. Just because you are having these dreams doesn’t mean she is going to cheat on you! And once you are more comfortable in your relationships your dreams will stop. Good Luck.
You really can’t read too much into it.Has she ever giving you reason not to trust her? one thing that can ruin a relationship is insecurity,You really love her and sub consciously probably why your dreaming it.. you don’t want to lose the best thing to ever happened to you?