Need help I'm really struggling to get over wife cheating?
Hello me and my wife our in the process of getting a divorce. She cheated on me and left me for this guy. Her and this guy been on two trips, she seem to make a smooth transition from marriage life to being this guy girlfriend. Me on the other hand I’m taking it hard, I can not seem to forget about it. Can you guys recommend a good book that I can read? Not into counselors. Your answer our greatly appreciated, thank you.
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there will always be one spouse who wants the divorce and one who doesn’t. it does hurt, it will take time, the book u might want to look into is the bible. when u find god, and focus on him, things do change. also find a friend to talk to who isn’t judge mental, as it does help to let the hurt out,when someone finds some one new it will appear as if life is good for them, but give it some time and u will see that they will have problems too.
Your Answer:
I know how much you must be hurting. My advice to you is to get out and live life to the fullest. It will take awhile for you to get over this pain BUT the time it takes for you to heal depends entirely on YOU and only YOU.
Forget the books, go to the gym, get back in shape (if your not
), go and persue a hobby that you always wanted to do. Keep yourself so busy that you dont have time to think of her because she is a loser b*itch to do this and the more you waste your time and emotions over her, the greater the hold she will have on your life….dont give her that much!!!!
Get out and meet friends you havent in years, travel, make new friends and for all you know, you could meet the right person who shares your values.
KEEP BUSY…
Good luck!!!
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A couple of friends of mine have been through what you are going through and it hurts but they have now moved on, found really good people, they are living a full, happy life!!!
I left my cheating ex gf a while ago
Yes it can be a blow to your ego in a way
here are the steps to recovery…..
1 thank god for not being married to a deceiver…..and read the bible it works
2 Thank god for your "true" family and friends
3 Do not blame yourself. It was her who gave up…..
4Get a hobby. Me I added wight lifting to my other hobbies and pow I have tome muscle tone now. Too bad the ex will not get to take a gander lol her loss. Make yourself hotter now than when you was with her so I suggest weight training also… Trust me it helps…
5 Look on the bright side you are FREE! you can stay out later and watch what ever you want and no more chic flix……
6 you can now get that muscle car you always wanted….
7 Live life abundantly and do not seek a companion….
By doing this you will become more attractive to the next woman if it is in God’s Will for you
8 have fun
as for me I have more money now lol
no more dates and I can sleep whenever I want now….
step 9
if you see your ex out and about just ignore her…
If she comes up and speak to you tell her how you are having the time of your life and hopefully you take my advise on working out and she will see the change also
and step 10 update wardrobe….Treat yourself…..
Remember you are not the only one with a damaged heart from a bad relationship
Psalm 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds
Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be kept honorable in every way, and the marriage bed undefiled. For God will judge those who commit sexual sins, especially those who commit adultery.
(your wife would fall under adulterer under what is said in Matthew about leaving your spouse for another person)
So this line says that God avenges the innocent party somehow.
This is why I said read the bible it comforts you to see what God says about certain things in life…
I’m glad to see that you obviously loved her. Maybe you should try to go out or get a friend to hook you up with someone. Don’t worry, blind dates only hurt in the movies.
Also, they’re are counselors out there to help you with this. You might want to try one of those dating websites, I haven’t tried any of them, but you should at least give them a try!
Hope this helps!!
Good luck.