How long can a woman go without sex or orgasm?
My wife and I haven’t had sex in over four months. Reasons don’t matter for this question. Relationship issues, let’s just put it that way. Anyway, I doubt very seriously that my wife is cheating one me. She’s home every night and on the weekends. There aren’t any signs of infidelity. I’ve asked her and while she wouldn’t come right and say, yes I’m cheating, I can tell by her response that she isn’t. My wife also does not masterbate (she claims), so this means that in four months for someone who is generally pretty active sexually, knows how good an orgasm feels, hasn’t had one in four months. That’s a pretty long drought by anyone’s standards. Are there any women out there that can relate? She won’t get tested for hormone imbalance but quite frankly it is destroying us, it’s how our relationship problems started in the first place. We had sex 3 times in one week for months ago, most we had had in a long time, then it just stopped. Why do women complicate things?
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women can go a long time without it - sex is more emotional for us - i stopped having sex with my husband casue he just started pissing me off too much with his behavior outside of the bedroom - we would fight constantly then he would expect me to go to bed at night and have sex with him - it was too much of a roller coaster - how are things outside of the bedroom for you two? that could have something to do with it.
women can go on for years .. they are vampires
I went over 10 months without having sex with my husband (Hes in the military so go ahead and put 2 and 2 together there)….I did not masturbate, did not cheat or anything….Did you ever thing she might be depressed???
for me about a year i guess hubby is an ass he dont look at me
but when i do once the Os flow cant stop til we stop any contact
she is lying, she does masturbate.
i dont know,i would have blown up by now.i got to have it 3-5 times a week!!!
she should be checked out by her gynocologist
sex is very important maybe you need to spice up forplay candles ,bubble bath,massage in the middle of the day
Im here to say that alot of women WILL not admit they masturbate no matter what! Some see it as Tabu and WRONG even though its a natural part of life! Im willing to bet you atleast once a week she is ummmmmm doing the job by herself. The signs all point to her being loyal to you. Thats a good start! Try romance! Men respond more to the physical like a naked body while women respond more with emotion and feeling! We need to FEEL loved and special. Run her a hot candle lite bubble bath with a glass of wine and let her soak in peace and quiet. Then take some scented lotion and give her a back rub she will never forget. Let her know this is NOT a lead up to sex! Dont try anything sexual during all of this and Im willing to bet she will come to you! You obviously love her and she loves you so please dont waste time with arguments and petty fights- hold each other and love each other and enjpy your life together!!!!! Good luck to you! THIS could just be menapause too. I had hysterectomy like 3 years ago and I use to want sex 5 times a week! After surgery I could go a month without even thinking about it! My hubby didnt do anything wrong- it was just my body! Now that Im on hormones its back to 5 times a week! THANK GOD! Try to convince her to see her gynocologist and he will definetely get her back on track if the romance doesnt work!
Well..If she does not talk about it ..that is a problem and I really don’t blame you for cheating. It’s not right but by cheating, i think you are adding to the problem. you don’t need that now. Sit with her and tell her how you feel and demand an answer and tell her it’s affecting your marriage. She cannot do this to you. If you tell her that you cheated..it will be over so maybe you should not.
Maybe she has become depressed?
i know its hard for the guys but us women can go without it for months, i guess we’re under stress tired busy with kids etc, and some of us ladies has lost our sex drive…i don’t give it to my husband that often i need to get it in a good mood for it..lol..oh well i hope all goes well
I went a very very long time without an orgasm. Maybe the two of you should try to spice things up! Have you hurt her feelings in any way? I know my brain is connected to my vagina so when my feelings are hurt, my vagina refuses to work.
Since you put a pre-cursor as to what soured the relationship I assume it matters a great deal. You mention her infidelity several times but I can’t help but wonder if it is an illumination of yourself and what you have done or are doing to cause the rifts in your marriage. It takes two my friend, be a man, take ownership of what you want, how you make others feel and fish or cut her loose, you’ll both be alot happier if this is the rule and not the exception!
Why does it have to be the woman who complicates things?!! You haven’t said anything about what you are doing to maybe get the ball rolling except " talking " to her. Try romancing her. We love that kind of stuff. If you really want to have sex with your wife again I suggest you make a serious effort and try more than just talking to her. Surprise her with some sweet words. The problem with men when it comes to marriage is that they feel the romance part is over with because they have the girl now. You are supposed to treat your lady as if you are still courting her everyday. It keeps the love fresh. Just try to be more romantic and gentleman like. Show her that you care. It isn’t always the females fault.
the woman befor their really need get divorce so their can do it and try to bear it without sex and other hand may be she have some outside of sex with some son of bitch sorry about my bad words but my exwife was did that and last year we get divorce and this May my exwife get the marry with hes bf .
Trust me i’m a woman, and before i met my beautiful partner…sex was not an issue for me i was quite happy being celibate, but your case is a little different… women go off sex for a number of reasons, so be gentle with your wife. i hope you haven’t said to your wife that she complicates things, because you will only make a bad situation worse, she will see this as criticism…it sounds like your wife’s libido has gone, it might be worth her going to see the doctor, and also to eliminate any other factors that could be the cause of her lack of interest in sex…don’t be too pushy take it easy with her, and give her time, eventually it will come good, just have a bit of patience, and don’t think it’s because you no longer satisfy her, you have already said she is not having an affair, so be patient with her. Good Luck.
Interesting details regarding your question….like - reasons don’t matter for this question. Of course they do! There must be a reason for the decline in her desire. In all marriages - there are highs and lows - and that goes for in bed too. If you are continually on her case about this - I can guarantee that this will be a major turn off and just make things worse. Are you attentive to her needs outside of the bedroom? Do you listen to her or do you ignore her unless you think you are in with a chance? Some husbands seem to think that all they have to do is roll over and ask "Are you awake?" to ignite unbridled passion in the wife they largely ignored all evening! It also seems that many men think that any form of physical contact - a hug, a stroked arm, a cuddle - from either party - is a prelude to a good romp in the hay! NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!! You need to talk to your wife. She may be desperately unhappy about a whole range of things - things that may or may not have anything to do with you…..! Is she experiencing changes in her body? Is she pregnant? Is she worrying about something? Does she suspect that YOU might be having an affair? Is she just in need of a bit of space? Four months is not such a long drought - I know men who have not ’scored’ with their wives - for years at a time. Talk to her and find out the reasons to this question - they do matter and you need to find out what is going on. And by the way - women don’t complicate things - they just react to situations in a more complex way than blokes do. Crack the code and you’ll be in clover! Good luck!
You don’t state her age. If she is old enough could be menopause.
If she stopped suddenly all at once, could be she found something out about you, and didn’t like.
Could also be she is just too dam tired.
You said she don’t masturbate like you don’t believe her, maybe that’s a problem. You don’t believe in her.
Could be many reasons why your wife is not in the mood, no one really knows but her. You didn’t marry her just for the sex did you? If you didn’t then stop acting like you did.
No sex is not grounds for divorce.
Try something new, I don’t know what you have done in the past nor do i want to know. Try watching movies, or reading short story’s to her, maybe a toy of some kind.
Go to an adult store get some ideas maybe you can talk her into going also.
Women don’t try to complicate things, our body changes beyond our control and it messes with our heads. You guys shouldn’t hold grudges against us you should try and help us when we hit these unknown complications. Sometimes you guys can come up with suggests that do work for us.
I’m sure you’re wife isn’t trying to complicate anything. It sounds to me like she might be depressed. Like others have commented, have the two of you gone through anything traumatic lately? Fights? A death in the familly? Kid trouble? Her job? Anything you can think of? I would definitely be honest with her and tell her how you feel in a non-threatening way. Let her know that you love her and support her, but you miss your sexual relationship with her.
Sounds like something is up with her, and you BOTH need to talk about it to get it resolved.
You’re going in the right direction just by asking questions, shows that you really do care!
Good luck!
I feel that a woman can go without sex until the day that they die. For women it’s not a need like it supposedly is for man. Women can go without an orgasm for a long time also seeing that women aren’t pleased enough to get one in the first place. Haven’t you heard that women are good fakers?