I found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, what do i do?
I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me, but he doesn’t know that i have the slightest clue. What do i do?
We have been together for almost 2 years, we have been through so much and i recently found out that he is cheating on me. I really care about him and have strong feelings towards him, i know im young but love cant even describe that way a feel about him, What should i do?
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uh i don’t know……. maybe you could try not being a self-concious teenager and break up with him. Grow up, this is not even a question!
DAMN! All these girls saying once a cheater always one. Not cool. Ive only cheated once in my life and i can honestly say that i would never do it again after what i experienced. Unfortunately not the case for all guys. So I would say confront him. Start off by asking why he’s been lying to you and just make ur judgments on each answer he gives you. You know the truth so you know if he’s lying and trying to sly by with another lie. And if you love him and he truly does seem sincere maybe you can give him another chance. That’s what I did with my fiance after the first "break" we had and slept with another guy. I didi this same thing and she’s never been more amazing. Hope this helps.
i would call him out on it make like a plan first so you can do it all at once..
Yell at him like there’s no tommorow. He deserves to have his ass whooped.
And chances are he will figure out pretty soon once you start yelling WHY you are yelling XD goodluck
pack his clothes put them outside and kick him to the curb…… once a cheater always a cheater.. been there more than once. good luck with that one
Public humiliation always works nicely… Just kidding, sort of.
Make sure you know it’s true. Did you see them together or hear through a friend of a friend of a friend? Because sometimes rumours are just rumours.
If he is, drop him like a hotcake!
You deserve better, everyone does.
well I would get my facts and sources straight, then call him out on it. Then tell him to shove off. You are better than that and don’t have to be with someone like him. There are guys out there who will respect you and not do this.
Have him over…plan it like you want to see him…soon as he walks in, slap him accross the face as hard as you can & tell him you never want to see him again. He’ll act like he’s shocked & ask you why. Then…you tell him what a piece of slime he is & send him on his way.
NOTE: He WILL try to weasel his way back into your life…DON’T DO IT!!! Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. He will do it again!
i know right about now you are just ready to kill him but wait … first you have to have proof that he is actually cheating on you because if u dont then he might just question you. After u have done all that confrunt him about how he made you feel and decide if its for the best to break up.
Next Time your with each other just make convo and ask him is there anything he needs to tell you that he want to get off his chest….If he says no then say "well that’s not what ive hurd" and ask him again then if he still says no then ask him if he loves you and if he say yer then just say well why have you cheated on me….If he says he ain’t then its up to you if you believe him ans if he as leave him.
Think first, use your head not your heart! Look at what you want from your relationship. Realize you both are young. Then, try to think about what you would want in his shoes. Most,people would say, end it! Leave him. But, is that what you want? Do you think you can learn from this?Then, make a time to meet with him in a private setting, and talk with him. Be honest. Take it one step at a time. If you feel that this is something not meant for you, your not a bad person for that. But, realize you could make this mistake sometime too. So, you need to confront yourself and him. Remember, as bad as this is you may never understand. My personal experience is, when you cheat you do it because your not getting what you need from the relationship. Mine was, I lost my friend. I became unimportant to him. However, what I chose to do did not help matters. I have learned and have spent many years trying to become a better person from my mistakes. Although, he maybe a person who is not ready for such a commitment. It is hard to live with yourself after a mistake like this! Everyone, should think first and pull back. Revenge is sweet for some, but truly can be a dangerous thing! Good luck!
You know what you should do, even though it is very painful. You will never be able to trust him again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he had any character, he would have broken up with you before he started to date someone else. Tell him it is over. You must think enough of yourself not to allow anyone to treat you this way. It will be better to end it now, that you know he is dishonest, rather than make up and spend all your time worrying what he is doing. You do not deserve this and should not allow him to put you in this position. Tell him he is "history" and you move on and give yourself a pat on the back for being smart enough to stand up for yourself. Do not waste another day on him, he is not worth it. Best of Luck. You will be better off without him.
Only you can decide what to do about this matter. But i would talk to him face to face to get my answer’s so you can look at him to see he if he is up front with you.You can tell when someone is lying to cover another one up. Let him no , That you no he has cheated on you, and let him no you no you guys have had problems but you did not think he would do this to you. Just fine out why he cheated on you, and if he likes this other girl. If he said he does then move on and leave him be, for he will see her again. But either way you need to talk with him and fine out if things are over with you guys for you have a life to live to. If you want to stay with him let him no , you need time to think about what you want to do, this way maybe he will see doing something like that was wrong and he will be Lucky if you for give him . But really i think he will do it again, but like i said only you can decide if you want to stay with him. Good Luck
The only way you’re ever going to get past this if you really want to stay with him is to talk to him. The second you see him/talk to him tell him you know he’s been cheating on you. Tell him how you found out and just get it all in the open first. Don’t yell. Don’t scream. Just tell him how much this breaks your heart. See what he says and take it from there. People can change but unfortunately it’s very rare for anyone to break the cheating habit. But it’s OK to give him another chance IF and ONLY IF he seems sincere in saying he’ll never do it again and you can see that he is truly sorry. If he says that. If not, then it may be time to find someone worthy of spending your life with, someone who will not betray you.
you may have been ‘together’ with him, but obviously, if you are sure he is cheating, he hasn’t been ‘together’ with you. why so long without committing to marriage? is it your idea or his to not get married? you should have had a clue about him cheating soon as it happened. if he is a teenager, you cant really count on him being true, since hormones rage and control young guys.
why dont you ask him how long he has been cheating?
ask him why he didnt just break up with you and be done before he moved on?
ask him how he would feel if he had found out you were cheating?
ask him what does he think is going to happen to your relationship now?
write your own answers down to these to see if you really knew him at all before you ask. then you will see the big picture of how important you and the relationship he has with you was to him.