my husband cheated on me and know he is deployed and still lying to me what do i do?!?
after i had been married for 9mo i found out my husband cheated on me 2 weeks before we got married. Sense then he has been emailing girls and talking to them in ways he shouldn’t behind my back and hiding everything. Every time he promises he will stop and grow up bet never does and now he is deployed and still doing it. We have a 6mo son and i love my husband but im not sure if he will ever stop, he makes me feel like im not enough for him. what do i do?
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Well bless him for serving his country but it sounds like he’s really dropping the ball at home.
If my math serves me well, you were pregnant before you were married. Is that the only reason he married you or were together for a while prior?
Anyone who so readily cheats may never change and only time will tell. In the meantime, tell him what he does to you, he does to his son. If he’s not going to respect you as a wife, at least respect you as the mother of his son. If he can’t even do that, you may as well cut your losses and hope he pays child support.
Get out of there ASAP!! Girl you do not need a man to treat you this way. I know having a child is a weight bc its something you both shared but for emotional health you need to take you and your son out of there before it gets worse. If hes not willing to change, take my advice to heart.
For me, once someone cheats — they don’t get a second chance. Really, really ask yourself why you are putting up with this behavior. Is it because you love him so terribly much, or is it because of your son? Never place on a child your own problems. Ask yourself also, "If I had $500,000 in the bank, would I be putting up with this man?" If the answer is no, then get out. You are not in it for love.
Don’t forget, you can LOVE someone inside and out, but they might not LOVE you inside and out…especially if they are cheating! Do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t love you inside and out!!!!!!!1????????????
Someone who has cheated previously is most likely going to do so again. They won’t stop until they are ready, no matter how much it hurts the ones they love. So you have a decision to make: Turn a blind eye to his cheating, or Leave. It’s a really tough thing to have to do, but if you stay together, you have to know you will never trust him again and he will always be upset that you don’t trust him.
GET OUT OF THAT TORMENTING RELATIONSHIP!!!
How can you love someone that obviously doesn’t love you back. He cheats on you, even before marriage. I take it you were pregnant during this time of cheating. Just because he serves the country, doesn’t mean he’s a hero. Honey, he’s a jerk. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. You have to love yourself first, before you love a man. If you don’t find the strength to leave for yourself, then do it for your child. Does your child deserve a careless father, who if he doesn’t love the mother, how can he love the child. Anyway. Get out. And go to the dr. and get tested, you never know… he might have given you an STD. He’s obviously not committed or ready for marriage.
p.s. if i were you, I’d contact his CO and tell them that your husband committed adultery. (make sure to have proof thou)
Divorce him. He cheated once and he will cheat again.
This site has been very eye opening. My husband accuses me of cheating and is very aggressive. His Ex-wife showed me his emails to her, begging her to take him back. 1 wk before we got married. I didnt find out until 3-wks into our marriage.I am 4 months pregnant and he has been abusive. He claims it’s only because he doesn’t want to lose me.When i have tried to leave him he’s the worst,he always says go run to you boyfriends house. I have never cheated on anyone. I have way to much respect for the person I am. I am his 4th wife and he has cheated on all of them. I just pray he hasn’t cheated on me but the way he acts say’s otherwise. I am so lost at times.I am so in love with him. We can be so good together. He is my life but what can you do? This site was useful Thank You Ever So Much .