My boyfriend cheated on me he says he was driven to because he is addicted to sex.?
I consider him more than a bf and never expected him to do this to me. Especially since he knows my family circumstances and bad relationship that I was in. There was never a dry moment we enjoy each others accompany and express our love all the time without forcing it. We end up having sex every time we meet and feels like its the first time every single time. I’m not a bor in bed and I dont think he is either….but he does prefer the missionary and doesnt like me to be dominant and I really dont care cuz he still satisfies me.
Anyways….couple of months back he tells me that he has sex addiction and he brought a book for that and he is reading it. I honestly thought maybe he is thinking so much into it and just reading so much into things like he always do…
My question is why would he go looking for sex in other places when it is always available to him and im willing to try different things. …why would he go after some1 else? he paid some1 to have sex with him…and lured girls with intention to have sex with them but stopped. he admitted to two incidents that occurred….
hearing this is really hurting me to where I cant even sleep …i never expected this from him..and my emotions are confused.
i feel like he is just reading more about it and watching all these things and acting out worse by making himself believe it more and making it his excuse for his actions…
should i just brake up with him..and just assist him get over this thing if indeed he is addicted? I have helped though his emotional problems and in helping him settle down…
I think i need help!
he doesnt see the wrong in it much cuz he says the addiction drove him to do it and thats y he was able to have sex with me later with out feeling guilt.
i told him that it is wrong and he should feel bad for and thing of the consequences of those that are impacted by it.
what should I do? yes i care for him but m emotions i dont think they are the same any more..
i hope what i wrote make sense im emotionally drained right now.
excuse my spelling errors etc.. just not feeling very good right now
Sandra i really dont know what you are trying to say. The entire thing about drinking blood is creepy!!!
I believe in my lord and the meaning of marriage not by just symbolism that man kind calls "marriage" I believe in marriage of souls.
I don’t consider sex to be sinful especially when it is out of good heart and not merely by lust…I do not know how to approach betrayal or feeling of being betrayed…. I don’t follow man made religion…
Find good in yourself and other is how I carry mylife…so please don’t misjudge me…..
I apologize if I misinterpreted your post…but I just wanted to clear up my thoughts…
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"I’m addicted to sex! I can’t help it!"
Yeah, right. He is 100% in control of his actions, and he’s getting away with his bad behavior because he’s not suffering any consequences. Why would he feel guilty if there are no consequences?
Dump the loser before he brings home an STD or a babymama. Aren’t you worth more than being just another "drug" to feed his "addiction?"
thats not an excuse….leave him
he doesnt sound too good
You are in for years of heartache if you do not get away from this guy.
Well im a sex addict but if i have a gf like you i am loyal. Especially if you let me to different dominant shit and do it every time i like it….. so hes not worth it hes using you. k thx bye end it
You shouldn’t put your self in that situation anymore. Sure you might just be trying to make him happy but he has some issues he needs to deal with. You need to think about yourself first here. that’s great you want to help him, but all your really doing now is enabling him. the best possible thing for you is to break it off with him, but if you want still be there with him to help him about. Insist he seeks counseling If not you need to cut off all ties with him as bad as it might hurt now, it will only hurt you worse down the road. Whatever you do don’t sleep with him again. Until he has went through counseling and has his so called addiction taken care of. Most likely its just a lame ass excuse. To screw around and not feel guilty. just quit enabling him.
It may be an excuse, and he may actually have an addiction. I think the best thing for you to do right now (even though it will hurt) is tell him you need to take a break. This means somewhat limited contact and NO SEX. Not between you and him at least. tell him if he truly believes he has an addiction, he should seek help. There are addiction specialists that can help with these kinds of things.
If he decides not to seek professional help, chances are he doesn’t really have an addiction and is using a serious problem that many people have as an excuse for his wrongdoings.
Sooooo…. it pretty much adds up to if he doesn’t seek professional help and keeps up his behavior, you should make a temporary break permanent, and move on. If it comes to this, then it would be easier for you in the long run to cut all ties with him. It may seem like the hardest option, but keeping in contact with him will just constantly remind you of the pain he caused you and leaves a chance for it to happen again.
Hope this helps!
Your boy friend is full of bull shit.
Maybe he practice Ab-normal sex style.
Get and run away from him - your sex life is in Red Alert .
Bor Hor Hor !
Just leave him. Plain and simple. He’s using his reason as an excuse to cheat, which isn’t acceptable and actually immeasurably pathetic. He’s using you. And doesn’t care about you. You can and will find better. And you won’t have to look to hard with the way he is..