my husband is cheating?
hello everyone my name is tiffereny
okay well me and my husband have been married for 3 years as of dec 21 2009 and we fight alot over stupid thing but lately i have been geting email from people i dont even know telling me he has been cheating i had this one who could tell me alot about him like his first name his moms nmae ware we live his brith date my full nmae and i let it going thinking maybe it was someone from work who didnt like him or some one he pissed off there is a x friend chris who i till from this day really dont know why they r fighting they were really close befor they left to get there eyes fix he tells me its bc of owning him money or sonthing do i need to worrie about that? also my husband was on hookt i think i spell that right talking to woman senting and geting pic i notice he got really funny about me geting one his phone and he wood go to bed really early and we stop haveing sex for the longest time and when i wood walk into the room he was on his phone he wood say checking the time or be hard i findly found it one night when i came house from work and needed to use a phone he was hafe asleep and hand me his phone and it was open so i left for 2 days he cryed and findly like a ass came back he was godd for about 2 day then everything went back he never leave his phone laying around and one night he got a text from some girl say hey baby how was ur weekend he told me he had no ideal who it was and dealt it fast so anyway i findly found his hookt i knew it was hkilla but i did no the pass word he told me he had no ideal what it was so one day he was at work and i call the hookt number to find out the past word and when i got on he was sweet talking people talking about things i didnt even no he like he was telling everyone i was his girl friend that live with him he was married meeting these girl at moltels all kinds of shit but like alway he said it wasnt him that he did tell chris his info and that he was geting on there but i dont beive it i know deep down it was him and i dont no what to do he said he loves mea am the only one for him but i just cant get over it i just never pic him doing something like this oh and yea we were in korea befoe we came to az and he went to georgia and i went to newyork he told me he was going to see his sick papa witch he was sick but he was with his family maybe a 4 day then he went and party with his friend stay in a motel he was down there 2 weeks i maybe talk to him 4 times oh also we deside not to have a myspace in korea bc of all the bull shit i found out he did and he was talking to his x girlf telling her we rnt doing so great thats why he coming down there and am not he did findly come up to new york and we had sex 6 times in one day we never done that look i can come up with alot of storys but that wood take way to long look help me i just really dont no what to do anymore
- Lotto numbers all hit from last 4 draws On 7 January 2009, the Australian Lotto numbers all hit from the last 4 draws! That is, all winning numbers came from those of the previous 4 draws, a rare event - see draws below. Lotto Results Australia To optimize lotto games for such an event would give tremendous advantage in......
- Listings, Unique Bidders, Loans, Average Interest Rate, and Total Amount Lent Some of these are leading indicators and some are trailing. Do you see a pattern? Month # Listings # Unique Bidders # Loans Average Interest Rate Total Lent 11/2005  39 12  13  10.56%  $47,800 12/2005  20 17  9  7.57%  $30,887 1/2006  48 21  8  8.23%  $45,120 2/2006  832 266  75  11.45%  $457,934......
- Tennis Elbow Doctor in San Jose, California describes how he treats Tennis Elbow cases. Tennis elbow is a painful condition of the muscles and tendons that enable you to extend your wrist and fingers back. It primarily occurs because of repetitive use, poor tennis technique, and not enough rest. This video displays a technique used by Doctors of Chiropractic which resolves your tennis elbow......
- Widgi Creek Golf Club, Bend, OR Widgi Creek Golf Club is located in: Bend, OR Phone: (541) 382-4449 Website: http://www.widgi.com/golf/hours.cfm Course History: This is a great place to stop if you will be in the Bend, OR area. We fell in love with this course and can't wait to go back. It is extremely beautiful and......
- Rash And Swelling In Arms Can Be Painful Tennis elbow is not a condition for tennis players only. It can happen to people in other sports and people who perform repetitive, uniform motions at work. If you have ever suffered from tennis elbow you would know how painful it really is. You would know that if you have......
- Alternative Income Streams Progress - Early December This is the fourth installment tracking of my alternative income streams plan and progress. This month I'm showing very good progress in creating more money outside my job. I had at least 6 Prosper.com loans get verified in the last two weeks and this blog has been getting a little......
- Do you think these exercises will help with my tennis performace? 30 sit ups 25 push ups running up and down a hill (walking occasionally) for 30 minutes leg and arm stretches I'm not really sure what a good workout would be for tennis. I just made this routine up, but if it's not good enough, can someone give me......
Tagged with: 3 years • email • Fight Alot • friend chris • girl friend • hello everyone • Husband Cheating • longest time • moms • money • pass word • senting • stupid thing
Filed under: Catch A Cheater
Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!
There has to be a reason why your husband would go outside of your marriage to get his needs met and a lot of times it’s because the woman is:
Whining, complaining and nagging only drives your husband farther away from you! And lessons his desire to communicate with you, after a while he’ll tune you out altogether.
Men crave to be admired and respected so, instead of negative talk show him some appreciation when he does what you want him to do and he’ll do more of it just to get your praise.
And in the process you’ll be covering him with a slut proof armor and eliminate one of the major causes of a failing marriage as long as you’re doing your own home work.
oh crap I"m late 4 work.
woww u just wrote a book..
stay with him, he’s the best you could ever get.
Oh my! You came from Korea and married this cheater? Does his mother know? Perhaps, if you tell her, she may talk some sense to him. Recommend marriage counseling. Or, get counseling from your minister. Do not accept excuses. He must call exes in front of you (so you know it’s done) and tell them not to contact him in any manner - no email, text, phone calls, etc - ever again! Go with him when he goes to see the sick Papa and everywhere else. Call the Hookt and tell them he is a married man and not to accept him for a client and any dating site he goes to. Save all the emails you got to show your attorney & judge if you have to get divorced. Joy to you!
I’m sorrry sounds like your having alot of problems but to be honest I couldn’t understand what is going on here with what you wrote. I can’t make out what your trying to say, maybe you typed to fast or what? if he’s cheating on you then only you candecide to leave him or not, and maybe you could rewrite this.
Actually, frankly speaking my dear, I had a hard time reading your query. Anyway, if you sensed that something is not right with your husband, talk to him about it. Make him realize that you are not comfortable about unsolicited texts and calls from other women whom he keeps on saying are just friends of his. Make him feel and understand that you want to make your marriage work but both of you must be open with each other. Infidelity, I believe makes a marriage crumble. If both of you still want your marriage both of you must work hard on it to work. If he has issues with you, he should talk it with you and while doing this both of you must be open to change your attitude towards each other. You should help each other physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually. If after you have done everything to work things out and he is still incorrigible, then leave him. End your marriage and move on. And do not jump into another relationship just so you can fill up your emotional space. Think hard (a million times) and ask for Divine intervention and guidance.
You know what he’s doing and you can’t keep your eyes closed anymore. Now, you stay unhappy or you leave him. It’s really all up to you. What’s a marriage without trust?
Tiff, you’re a military spouse, aren’t you? He’s cheating, big time. You know it. Anybody reading this knows it. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Sometimes….sometimes….we marry for our own selfish reasons. We don’t wait for the blessing to come so we marry the wrong person, have pain and heartache, and learn very hard lessons. I believe in the power of prayer so I’m going to pray for you and suggest you do the same thing. I know I don’t know you but I don’t have to. It’s all about people for me. It hurts me when marriages don’t work, when people don’t take their commitments seriously, when they marry for the wrong reasons, when they think life lasts forever so they do what they please with no consideration for anyone else. Life doesn’t work that way. I hope you have enough strength and love for yourself that you can do something about your life and your situation. You don’t need to be married to a man who doesn’t care enough about you to respect and love you. He is too childish to be a husband, straight up. Check this out…..husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. From the Bible, Ephesians 5. If you have the chance, read it. It will tell you about being the wife you should be and the husband he should be. Take good care of yourself, girl. You’re God’s child, remember that.
It really sounds like he’s cheating. All the hiding the phone, the calls and messages, and the online activity; all that adds up. At the least, he’s not behaving in a trustworthy manner. Now, you have to decide for yourself if this can be resolved, or if you should leave him. I can’t tell you what to do there. I can tell you that, if you decide to stay, it needs to be because he’s putting in some actual effort, and stopping this current behavior. If he won’t quit, I would leave. You deserve a man you can trust. Plus, there is the very real possibility of his bringing home a disease, or fathering a child that isn’t yours. His denials sound pretty lame in the face of all the evidence. You need to confront him, tell him you know he’s cheating, and that it has to stop, or you are gone. he can have a wife, or he can have girlfriends, but not both, not with you. A cheating spouse is the one valid Biblical reason to divorce.
Your choice, but in your place, I would demand changes, or walk. Really sorry you have to go through this.
I have had the same problem with this Korean lady even until this stage nothing but cheating and disresfectful husband. It can be difficult to deal with cheating husband. Adultery equals no family. I just trust God on these and I’m actually giving up to interrogate my husband, God is the only answer. What I’m trying to do now is to love him and give him hundred percent even in return I’ll get 20 percent. I can see changes in my husband now and the Lord will do the rest.