Should my sister leave her husband?
Hello everyone. My lil sis has been married for about 8 months now. She is 25 and when they married she packed up and moved to his hometown which is a 3 hour drive from her family and friends. She hasn’t been very happy the past few months. She just found out three weeks ago that she has the STD Trichomoniasis. She thinks he cheated on her obviously.
When we researched Trich online more closely we realized there were some sites that stated you ‘could’ catch Trich from toliet seats and washclothes or towels. They claimed that Trich could live on a damp towel for 45 minutes. We called the CDC and they said Trich can only be contracted through sexual contact and you could NOT get it from toliet seats or towels. I assume the Center for Disease Control knows their stuff better than a health website.
Another problem is that my sis had her first symptoms a week after they were married and before they went on their honeymoon. After exposure to Trichomoniasis it only takes 5 to 28 days to show symptoms. She was having symptoms and thought it was a urinariey tract infection. Poor thing was walking around for months and didn’t know what was wrong with her. She also has no insurance and I think she should be tested for other STD’s. Any thoughts? She wants so badly to believe that he didn’t cheat. I told her that’s impossible. He had to cheat for her to have this.
Also, they were sexually active the entire time they dated which was for 1 1/2 years. Thanks for any opinions and insight.
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Dump him, or Cap his ass
I think you should BUTT OUT and let them solve their own issues.
Just telling your sister she should just leave is not helpful to her at all. She needs somebody to help her figure out where to go from here.
If she’s concerned about what her husband is up to, she needs to talk to him. If she finds that’s not enough, they need to go speak to a counselor or therapist and work things out. Do your part to listen to her and let her vent, but don’t assume you know what’s best for her or how to solve the problem.
Yes, she should be tested, but more importantly she needs to find a way to make sure she and her husband are insured - serious illness when you are uninsured can mean complete financial ruin.
Your sister and her husband need to have a talk about this.
Maybe your sis cheated on him and gave him the STD.
just a UTI should not be the cause of a bitter divorce.
go to a doctor & get the treatment for the UTI.
Men don’t have symptoms with Trich, only women do. Your sisters husband could have had it before he ever started dating your sister and he may have never known about it. He could have given it to her the very first time they had sex.