My boyfriend cheated on me but says he wont do it again…?
My boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months. His sister is in the grade below us and we have gotten pretty close. About two weeks ago she told me he was cheating on me with this slut (lets call her Casey) in her grade but i found it hard to believe. Then his sister told me to come over one night and he was in his car hooking up with Casey. I knocked on the window gave him back the ring he gave me for my birthday and was about to leave but he was trying to stop me and said he would stop it and that i need to forgive him and i told i would think about it and get back to him in a week. He wont stop calling me and leaving messages and texting me saying he is sorry and it wont happen again but i dont know what to do. I’ve gotta tell him tomorrow if its over or not. I just want some input from complete outsiders to get a non biased opinion. So what do you think? Should i forgive him and stay with him or should i end it??
He says he really loves me and i love him so much. Its not like him to cheat, i used to trust him so much
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If he cheated on you this time then he must think that you’re not smart enough to do anything about it, which isn’t the case since you got prime information from his sister.
If you forgive him and stay with him you run the risk of him doing it again. This doesn’t mean that he will, but you have to be aware of the risk that he "may" do it again and then you’ll kick yourself for taking him back.
If you leave him you’ll deal with hurt feelings and the pain of an ended relationship, but at least you can leave the situation knowing that you didn’t let yourself be suckered.
Ultimately you should ponder his heart and if he you feel that he’ll cheat again, then leave him and let him learn the lesson of what happens when you betray someone’s trust.
IT’S OVER
He’s not sorry. He’s sorry he got caught.
no.
The ho probably gave him herpes. Dump the douchebag.
Girl NO! Go find someone who doesn’t cheat on you. He is a cheater! They always say they won’t do it again, probably will. Btw, slap him silly, lol goodluck(:
No not at all. If he really did care about you he wouldn’t have cheated. This happens allll the time and people go back because they truely think he will stop….he doesn’t. If you don’t believe me, watch the Millionare Matchmaker. Take her advice. She is like a relationship genius!
Don’t listen to one word a cheater says, they are just going to find a better way not to get caught. If he was in love his heart wouldn’t have guided him to fall for another woman.
No he’ll probably do it again
Okay you boyfriend cheated on your thinking about forgiving him, that’s crazy talk.
Okay say yes its cool, but if you catch him cheating on you again tell him that there is another guy in the school that is crazy about you and could just forget about you and him… lol!
Sadie, he is not sorry he cheated he is sorry he got caught. He did not confess, he was caught red handed. Why would you risk your health and heart with a loser like this. Don’t be so desperate for a boyfriend. You have to establish standards for the people you will allow into your social inner circle. I would dump this guy. But the sister sounds like she has integrity and saved you wasted time with her brother. She obviously knows you deserve better. It is sooo over. Why drag out the inevitable.The relationship has no future. You can’t love some one that you don’t trust and respect.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.. You got to think about what you deserve & not what you want. Is he worth your heart? Is he worth the tears and pain? Nobody is. The one person whose worth your tears wont make you cry, remember that. Let him go, and move on. But as for his sister, she seems like a pretty good friend, although it may be hard to be her friend with him being her brother. Don’t settle for less than you deserve. I made so many mistakes in the past & hopefully you’ll take our advice and dont fall down the wrong path.
-Brittany.
P.S. You can always email or IM me if you need to talk.