Is my wife cheating on me?
My wife and I are newly weds of only a year. And I’m concerned she might be cheating on me. I already have jealousy problems from the fact that she use to be a stripper when I met her and admitted to me on our first date she cheated on one of her previous boyfriends. Later as we dated more she changed the story and said she got drunk and it was date rape. However I also know she spent her teen years partying, popping pills, and sleeping with all odds and ends of guys. She also tried to invite her customers from the strip club to our wedding and was mad at me for getting angry and saying NO.
I’ve always had self-esteem and insecurity issues and don’t wanna accuse her of anything, but at some point she went from never being jealous to being ragingly jealous of every female I come in contact with and will read every text I get. However I can tell when she gets a text she deletes them right away and clears out her deleted texts right away as well. If I try to ask her who and what the text was she studders to make up something of what it says.
Recently she got a new job and has been putting on makeup and straightening her hair and wearing push up bras with lots of cleavage, when she hardly ever does that when we go out together. Then one morning she’s constantly telling me how she can’t wait to have sex that night and how she’s gonna get all "dolled up," but when she calls me on her breaks that day she constantly sound sad and agitated like something wasn’t right. I asked her and she said she was just bored. She works at a call center so I give her the benefit of the doubt. When I go to pick her up from work however she’s 15 minutes late coming out and everyone else she works with has left. She comes out all excited like something good happened, she says she just had a good customer on the phone. When we get home and I try to initiate sex by touching her crotch she squirms like a woman would if you touched their crotch AFTER sex. I ask whats wrong and she says she’s just sensitive tonight. Then we eventually go to bed with no sex cuz she’s exhausted.
Also the night she started the job she forced me into role play sex where I was her boss and she was my secretary trying to get a raise. I felt like she was pretending I was someone else.
Should I be worried or am I paranoid?.
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she could be battling depression Im sure you know it has it’s peaks and valleys
All i can tell you is marriages require trust.
I would definitely be worried. why did u marry someone with that kind of past? shes definitely acting strange…get some facts/evidence then…
ok, first off im sorry. second here’s how you catch her cheating…call your cell phone company and get a detailed phone bill including text transcripts..when she deletes them theyre still on her phone bill..find all her numbers that call often and call them yourself,see who answers and ask em how they know your wife ect. If the phone company can’t disclose transcripts then put a tracker on her phone, itll send you every call & text she gets/sends..you can order them online and install them yourself. marriage is about trust and honesty and if she can do neither one then she had no right to commit to you for life.
i hope you find what your looking for and that i could help. good luck!