In need of urgent advise, please HELP!?
i am 3 &1/2 months pregnant and from early on i have had bad symptoms: morning sickness, vomiting and severe tiredness, my husband is drifting further away from me and just now at 10.30pm as im going to bed he starts getting ready to go out, he gambles but i have never had a reason to suspect him of cheating, i have not been affectionate at all since i found out i was pregnant and that includes sexually, i feel like i have lost all self confidence and i dont even feel strong enough to talk to him anymore, i always feel like everything he does- he justifies it or blames me. How could i deal with this in a non-aggressive way?
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I think you need to ask yourself why haven’t you been affectionate with your partner since you found out and why are you feeling so low. Only you know the circumstances surrounding and leading up to your pregnancy and if you can’t be honest to yourself do it for the child you will be bringing into this world. Communication is so important with your partner, god knows whats going through his mind and visa versa. Another thing you can do is talk to a doctor (GP) about your symptoms and see if they can point you in the right direction and most of all you need to get counselling to help you through this for you and maybe help make you stronger to communicate with your partner. Also all your hormones will be all over the place which affects mood, the way you see things etc so your doctor can do some tests to start eliminating possibilties so you can get to the centre of the problem no matter what it is and give yourself some peace of mind. hope this helps take care and goodluck!
Confront him with how you are feeling. Hopefully for both yours and the babies sake he will make some changes and stop whatever it is he is up to. It is not right for him to go out and leave you alone, pregnant or not. If he is gambling then your family security could be at risk and this can become a powerful and dangerous addiction. Don’t make the mistake of keeping your head in the sand and having blind trust that things will get better on there own. The added responsibility and stress of an infant could cause him to drift even further unless you can get to the root cause of this matter very soon and start to work on it. Believe me being a single parent is not an easy task, but being a parent to an adult child and an infant is even harder!
Your body is going through all kinds of changes now that you are pregnant and you have different kinds of feelings. Your husband might be trying to give you space until your body gets use to the pregnancy. Once it does you will get back to a somewhat normal life and hopefully you and your husband will get back like you were. I mean there is a little one on the way and he /she needs both parents. Maybe your husband is not happy that you are pregnant and that is why he is acting like he is. You need to take the time to talk to him and explain to him that your body is changing and find out if he is happy about the baby. Communication is very important in a marriage.
First off you have a baby growing inside you and this baby needs you to take care of you ….your hubby sounds very selfish and he needs a wake up call he needs to take care of his wife and start acting mature he is going to be a father ….just sit down and tell him what you feel ”you” are important not his outside activities……….you have normal feelings your pregnant stop feeling guilty these are feeling we all have and your very sensitive at this time ………bless you …kara