I have been together with my boyfriend for over a year, and my suspicions have always been there. But, things have recently drastically changed. He lost his job as of this December, and has not been able to obtain one since even with an MBA degree. So I am the only one working currently, so now he has all this alone time when I am at work. I’ve started getting more suspicious a few months ago, his sex drive has changed, he has a really bad temperament, and he doesn’t spend any time with me unless I force him to. We live together so he can’t really avoid me. We also currently have to share my car we both own sports cars, but I’m the only one in the relationship with a secondary front wheel drive car, and we are having a really bad winter so going anywhere without asking me is out of the question. But here is how things have change in our past we use to quote " have sex like rabbits" like 3-4 times a day, throughout the relationship that number has dropped to 4 times a week, to 2 times, and now I’m lucky to get sex once a month he blames is it on stress, but he has also contradicted himself by saying that sex helps relieve his stress. He now hides his phone from me, we use to have an open phone policy where I didn’t care if he looked on mine, and he let me look in his now he carries it everywhere with him, and also puts it on the stand next to him when he goes to bed. He has started going out with the boys to various locations, but not to clubs or bars, and tells me that I cannot go I have no place being there. He has asked to take my car to his grandfathers, and be gone for hours which is sort of believable his grandfather does talk a lot. He has recently put the pictures of his ex back on his computer. I deleted them months ago, and he stated that he did not care. I just think that is flat out odd for a boyfriend to have after the relationship has been over for years. Our valentine’s day was a living hell he refused to go out because he could not afford it no biggie, but he had his friends at the house paid no attention to the fact that I was there decided that they were going to order out, he didn’t change his mind about going out with me until I had gotten upset about doing nothing, and to top it off he refused to have sex with me that night. This relationship is just in a downward spiral, and I’m at the point that I can’t take it anymore I love him to death, but with no sex, no communication, and being secretive, I don’t believe it will last much longer.
The first answer was good I do actually know what the terms mean I’m a psychology major, he shows signs of be depressed but however he is not at a critical level of depression, to attribute to his actions. I’ve also noticed that he is bipolar never diagnosed but I have a thing for noticing people with it. Couples consoling is useless we have only been together for one year six months. I would only recommend that for individuals that have been together for years.

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