How would you view an extramarital affair?
I have recently met a man who is older than me. He is married and I am single. We live in the same town while his wife lives in a town 2 h away from here. He’s here because of work. I feel attracted to him, and I know he’s really into me from all that he says and does. I want to embark upon a relationship with him but at the same time I’m not totally sure what to do. What do you think about this situation?
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Ask yourself if you really want to be involved with a married man. This man has all ready committed himself to someone else and now you want a relationship with him? Are you expecting this to be a serious relationship built on trust, support and love? If you are, then I think you need to look elsewhere. If the man has children, you definitely want to look elsewhere. Regardless of your feelings towards him, you do not want to be the woman that steps between him and his family.
If you are looking for a relationship, don’t go looking for married men. They are all ready taken. Think about it this way too, if he’s willing to cheat on his wife do you really think he will be faithful to you in a relationship? Of course not.
I know it’s hard to find good people out there that are right for you. But if you go looking for married men, you are asking for trouble. It’s not worth it. Sure, you might get away with it for a while. But, sooner or later the wife is going to find out. What is your plan of action for when the wife discovers this? What if the man has children, what is your plan of action if his children discover that daddy is cheating on mommy with another woman?
Should I go on?
Think before you act. While the guy might be attractive, easy to talk to, and an overall nice guy remember that he is married and off the market. I suggest trying to find some men that are single. It might be harder to find the right one, but if you go looking at married men you are going to cause a lot of drama for yourself. You will also create a lot of hurt, pain, and confusion. Ask yourself if you really want to be responsible for all that.
I think only low-class skanky whores sleep with a man that is married.
If that’s you, by all means help him betray his wife.
I think if you act on this impulse, you both are losers.
do what you want, but don’t be surprised when he doesn’t leave his wife
If you were married, what would your opinion be if your husband did this
Karma is a b!tch
I cannot believe that you would even consider this. If you want to be a home-wrecker and the other woman go for it.
you are a ho
Back up off him!
You know better, he’s married. Whether you are attracted to him or not, he’s STILL married.
Keep your legs closed till you find a Single guy.
ok instead of judging you like other have obviously done. I only say, what if you were married and your husband’s eyes wondered would you want someone to have sex with him or deny him. Attraction is a very powerful thing but can be controlled. I don’t think it will be healthy for you either. You are already calling it a realationship when in fact it would be an affair. Dont do it, have strength enough to say NO.
Walk away from it. He’s married.
WHY
waste your time and sexual energy on a "married man",
this will only lead to heart aches!
And you already know this is wrong!
Are you married to? Ponder this, he is a man who probably loves his wife deeply. It may be that he is missing her and missing the love, affection and attention he was able to give her before work moved them apart. He may be transferring that to you without really realizing it. You are a sort of surrogate. Then think about this, just try and put yourself in his wife’s place. The man she married and gave her complete trust to, violates her complete trust and love in him? How would you feel if the roles were reversed? I know I cheated on my wife and always found a way to justify it. As I am sure you two could. But even though I know in looking back we were not meant to be, I still hurt her deeply and I know can imagine how the hurt and pain must have been for her. She loved and trusted me unconditionally, and I threw it selfishly in her face. Instead of being a man and ending the marriage I chose to avoid the obvious and play around hurting her more than she deserved. All the excuses I used in my mind to justify my actions, she did not deserve what I did to her. And the women I did it with were not nearly the woman/lady she was. So just ask yourself.
I have a few questions:
1. Are you completely insane?
2. Do you think it will be fun hiding your feeling for this jackass in public?
3. How would you feel if you where the other woman?
So lets begin you will waste your time with one whois already married because he is simply having you around for that afternoon romp while his wife is away…! If you value yourself as someone that is just a peice of @$$ then sure jump on the wild bronco which will become your life.
Hey if your lucky you can become prego and try to leverage that little crumb cruncher over him to see if you can get him to leave his current wife - sound like fun?
Well that isn’t the best part just wait till she finds out and comes storming into your town screaming and yelling and ready to shoot you - now that is some real redneckery to look forward to.
Youall come back now yahear?
IF you think he’ll actually leave his wife and family (which he won’t), what makes you think he’ll be faithful to YOU when he wasn’t faithful to a woman he was married to and had children with? Just find someone else and don’t ruin this family and their lives.
One question that you should find and answer is " why are living separately?" It is VERY difficult to maintain a marriage living apart from each other. Two hours doesn’t seem like much of a distance that he and her can not be together. Certainly moving towards half that distance would be a solution.
They may be truly "separated" which usually indicates that the marriage is effectively over.
don’t do it is all i can say. what goes around comes around. you never know if you will be that wife down the road.
some things are just not worth it.
If you go through with it just know that most likely he’s not going to leave his wife for you.
Women need to respect other women. Think about his wife, even though you don’t know her think about all the years they’ve spent together building a relationship and a family, do you really want to be the one who risks destroying all that? If you really love this guy then you need to let him know that you won’t do anything with him until he is single again and if he chooses to end his marriage then that’s up to him but don’t disrespect yourself and hook up with a married man.. it’s not worth it.
I am speaking as the wife of the married man. No, the pain is too intense and if he isn’t happy encourage him to leave the marriage before you start something. I said before…..if he has an affair with you, what’s to say he won’t cheat on you. Once a cheater always a cheater. For you to ask this question, I think you already know the answer, you are just looking for someone to tell you it is ok but it is not.
An extramarital affair is adultery. My opinion of women who "embark" on a relatinship with a married man she is that she is a whore. That’s what I think.