Cheated on my hubby now I might be pregnant?
I went on a holiday by myself for two weeks.Got drunk and slept with one of my sisters friends now I might be pregnant. My dog keeps on sniffing me and it scares me.My husband is a very sweet gentle person and would never hurt me, then I had to do something stupid by having sex with someone else.I have the symptoms of pregnancy and I don’t know what to do. I have to get rid of this baby but I can’t stand to think about an abortion it’s not the child’s fault I screwed up. Please someone help I don’t know what to do. I allready have children. My husband will forgive me but will I forgive myself.
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First, probably a good idea to find out if you are or not. I asume it’s been more than 2 weeks, and you’re missing something regular - take a test so you really know.
Then, if positive, you have to decide what to do, one step at a time.
Do you want an abortion - yes or no? (Sounds like no…)
OK, then you pretty much have to tell him sometime in the next few months; the sooner the better.
If he’s a nice guy, he’s not likely to tell you to get rid of it; so he’ll have to agree with raising the baby as part of the family. (Or leave)
So, you’re stuck. Some other comments here are cruel, but the gist is correct - what’s done is done, you can’t change it. You (and he) have to decide what to do going forward. People adopt kids all the time, so it’s not like he can never love a child just because it’s not his.
SO talk it out, and decide to move forward, if he’s that understanding. Some people’s mistakes haunt them for years… at least it’s not like you burned down the house or killed someone drunk driving. Your mistake is actually a happier one, if everyone can forgive you, you can forgive yourself, and move on.
If he forgives you, don’t beat yourself up over it, just make it up to him by trying to be a better wife from now on.
(Oh, and what about your sister and the other guy? They may not be that stupid and maybe they can do math - so if your sister has a clue what happened and could blab to the other guy - you better tell her to shut her trap pronto - unless you want some guy wandering in and out of your family life, maybe asserting his rights, confusing the issue and your child, and straining your marriage. Make sure your sister understands that you want to treat this child as your husband’s - if he goes along with it.)
So what is the question?
You haven’t even confirmed the pregnancy yet…so there is really nothing to do until you test positive and know for sure.
Omg, I think you should just tell him what you did even though it will be painful. Its better than having him think that it’s his baby and then later to find out it isn’t. That’s awful.
Good luck!
Well you made your bed…now lie in it. You said yourself it was a stupid mistake…just deal with your choices and if you are pregnant tell your husband and accept whatever happens!
If you do end up being pregnant you need to come clean with your husband. He will find out at some point and would be even more upset with you if he found out you aborted your child when it may STILL be his. Think about that.
You cheated and you screwed up. Now you are probably more stressed than pregnant, but than again their is the chance. You should be open with your husband, first of all you dont know who is the father, maybe it is your husband, and second of all he might accept it, and still love you and your child. You have to be honest, you cant hide a pregnancy, and you shouldn’t kill an innocent child just because you were stupid. Good luck.
just tell him, apologize and hopefully it will turn out for the better. you said he would forgive you and it is your child. Im not an expert or anything but if you love each other it should work out.
hope that helps
You need to get rid of the baby?? That is quite cold, don’t you think?
You assume your hubby will forgive you, why? Cause he is a sweet gentle person? I doubt that. How can he forgive you, you betrayed him and your family.
I’m sorry, being drunk it no excuse, I’ve been pissed drunk out of mind before, and i still knew when to say no.
If you can’t control your urges when you drink, i suggest, you don’t drink anymore.
Before going into a panic, take a hpt test to find out for sure.
BUt i think you owe it to your hubby to tell him the truth, either way.
Nice job slut. I hope he doesn’t forgive you.
Obviously abortion should be out of the question, and how do you know its the other guys baby? Why couldnt it be your husbands? And what does the dog sniffing you have anything to do with it? I think you should be an adult and regardless if your pregnant or not tell your husband what you did, and then worry about the whole baby thing. Its easier to pretend like it didnt happen, but it did
…people liek you are cold and heartless.
not only did you cheat on a good man that you dont deserve but you want to kill an innocent child to cover your own stupidity.
Were we living in my world, you would be sentenced to death by firing squad.
You are a waste of a human being.
u should get a pill now before baby gets bigger thats when abortion is possible….
I think you should be honest with your husband, and wait to tell him you think you’re pregnant until after you take a test.
I also think if your husband is as loving and sweet, and as caring about you as you say is, he’ll have the ability to forgive you, and to accept the child as his own. Just like you’ll be able to accept the child yourself, might be hard for you, the both of you. But you can make it through this. This is just one of those tests for you both to prove how strong you both can be for your marriage, and for your children.
Good luck to you and God Bless.