Is he cheating? Serious relationship of 7 years at risk!?
So I’ve been with my fiance for 7 years, engaged for 2. We hadn’t rushed a wedding because honestly, we couldn’t afford it and didn’t have the help to pay for the wedding we both wanted.
Now we fight all the time, and never can seem to get along. We’ve been camping every weekend with a new group of friends, and there’s an 18 year old girl (he’s 25) that goes that’s openly obsessed with him. At first it seemed like he was flattered by it, and now, he’s become very good friends with her (so have I).
I questioned him once before because he spends so much time with her and ignores me so badly, but there’s no proof of if he’s cheating or not.
He thinks we should break up now, because we’re fighting so much and I agree. I would just have never thought it would have been his idea. This is totally unlike him. Is he pushing me away to be with her? To be honest, she’s sort of perfect for him. Into the same things, music, and worships the ground he walks on. I’m not that kind girl.
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Hi. First of all, Im sorry your fiance is putting you through this. Since there is no proof that he is cheating on you, talk to him and her both about this. Not together, of course. All the signs are there, and it’s odd that he is asking that yall break up, now that he and the girl are friends. Of course, at first Im sure you thought it was a harmless crush, but now it’s beyond a crush. Sit down and talk to him, and just tell him how he makes you feel, when he does this. Dont yell or blame him, because he is going to just shut you off! If he becomes mad quickly and isn’t willing to open up to you, then there is your answer, because people who are guilty are defensive and they become angry very quickly and start making excuses! Trust me, my ex-husband was the same way! Although fighting can cause strain on a realtionship, if he truly cares and loves you that should be no excuse to break up! Im sorry to be so blunt, but sounds like to me you need to wake up and let go of this one! Be happy,you didn’t marry him! In a couple of months, you will be wondering why a cool chick like yourself stuck around with the clown for so long! Trust me, you will be okay. Email me if you want.
You should def talk to her!