Is my wife cheating on me?
4 years ago my wife of 8 yrs cheated on me with one of my friends. 2 yrs later we got back together and pursuing marriage. So its been a year and everything was going well, until she told me the dude she was cheating with saw her at her job. So she gave him her phone number saying its not like that. But then he called the other day and I answered the phone. So I am furious but trying to trust her. What should I do?
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In the real term she is not, but here is no reason for her do all this, she is so insensitive towards your feeling and I felt she not taking the marriage as serious as you are. Observe her closely, there should be some tell tale signs, if proved to be, don’t not hesitate to leave her she don’t deserve your love. If you forgive her again how sure she won’t repeat, how many more forgiveness you can afford.
i think she should not have given him her # knowing it would upset you. She is just opening the door for another situation. Whether that is her intent or not. It could be his. And she should respect you enough not to talk to him if she truly wants your relationship to work.
YES! Stick to the old rule, "Once a cheater always a cheater"
Also your first mistake was getting back with her.
You need to stand up for your rights. Your wife needs to go with you to marriage counseling, and she needs to be honest. You don’t deserve to be cheated on. It may or may not be happening now, but if it is not, it is likely to happen again unless you do something about it. Don’t be a sucker. You deserve to be respected. Demand from your wife that you guys see a marriage counselor IMMEDIATELY!
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She’s not cheating, but she sure isn’t acting appropriately to defend your relationship. If you’re not married and she won’t defend your relationship, what makes you think she’ll start to once you’re married?
I’d definitely hold off, until she has it in her heart to cut him out for good.
Why is she giving him her phone #? something is wrong with your wife! If its over then why even talk to the man!
she should have never of gave him her number. it gives opportunity that should not be there!!
First of all I hope you ended your friendship with him. Second she shouldn’t want any contact with him after what happened. I would be more than furious it brings back all of those old feeling of hurt. Nothing good will come out of them talking. Maybe you should put off getting married until she can put you and your feelings first and understand the betrayal you felt from not just her but him.
She should not be having any contact with this guy. She should have more respect for your feelings, even if she’s not sleeping with him. She might not be sleeping with him yet, but there is major temptation there. I would insist that she have no contact with him and enter marriage counseling with you. Good luck.
There is NO reason for her to give the person she cheated with her phone number. There is NO reason for you to trust her.
It is up to you what you want to do about it.
she is cheating. maybe you both did not get he right type of counselling or support before getting back together. it appears as though her behaviors hve not changed. at this point she should be doing all she can to win your trust, and she is not. at the same time i hope you have not done the same to her or of equal value and still continuing, just because she may use that as the excuse. either way hon, she is cheating and you need to decide how you want to live your life, before you go crazy and do something you will regret. good luck.
If she hasn’t cheated on you again she will. Why in hell would she give her ex lover her telephone number while still living and being married to you. She could have just gave him a casual "hi" and left it alone….but she game him her number!!!!
It’s up to you to stop this. Tell her if she wants to continue being married to you do not have her ex lover calling the home you and her share. If she says "its nothing going on" she lying. She is being very disrespectful to you and the marriage.
If she gave him the number she is probably seeing him behind your back or will do so in the future. You will have to be on your p’s and q’s because she might tell him to stop calling but make arrangements to talk or see him elsewhere. If she cheats on you again…get a divorce she has abused your trust enough.
Good luck.
She shouldn’t have given him her number. If she told you about this BEFORE he called then I would give her forgiveness. But if you happened to answer and it was him and she did not tell you, then I don’t think I could continue the relationship. Either way she should not have given her number and I think you both need to talk about this, either the two of you, or with a counselor. That is a red flag.
not yet.. ones a cheater always a cheater your a very nice man to forgive her like that she doesn’t deserve you
She not only cheated on you ,but she did it with one of your friends!!!! Then she saw him at her job and gave him her phone number????? Your wife is an idiot! You deserve better. Grow some balls and dump the ho! Sorry to be so blunt, but i think cheating is the lamest and cheesiest thing anyone could do in a relationship. Seriously, she’s still cheating on you.You tried to give it another shot and it didn’t work. Time to move on to a real woman!
she’s a slut. sorry man.
It’s not like what? Not like she slept with him when she was married with you. It IS like that and you need to consider marital counseling to figure out why it is like that.
I hate to say this, but from experience…….you ‘caught’ her cheating on you once. That doesn’t mean she only did it once. Takes a lot of audacity to cheat on you with your ‘friend’.
Dude, it depends on you what you want to do. Just know that there are women like your wife, and know also there are women who are not like your wife, that do not cheat 4 years ago, and that do not give their phone number to friends, especially the ones with who they have slept in the past.
If you want a life without that kind of worries, then divorce her and find one accordingly.
Pretty simple isn’t it?
YES she is.
i hate cheaters
i hate cheaters