This is going to be very detailed. So only read if you are willing to help. About 7 months ago, Blake* and I met. We became bestfriends and we were dating (not bf and gf). Well about 4 months into the relationship, he was deployed for 2 months. Before he left he said, " you have to prove to me that you can stay committed to me while i am gone and then when i get back we will see about actually being a couple." so while he was gone, i did good for the most part. My neighbor, who is 25, I have had a crush on him since i was 16. I am now 19. Well we were going to the movies and hanging out as friends. well one night, he kissed me good night, and he did not know about Blake. I had was in shock. some people told me it was ok to date two guys. neighbor boy and i went out a few times, and would kiss. nothing else, and we also never talked about our feelings towards eachother. well finally i chose to stay with Blake. we are the same person and we get along great. i believe he is my soulmate. well i told him about what happen and he broke down.he told me that we could still be friends but he would never give me a second chance at being his girlfriend. he was so hurt that he was in tears. i ended up going to the hospital because i tried to hurt myself and i didnt talk to him for 20 days. he kept in touch with my mom, asking how i was and all that. well we had a talk and he said that he would give me a chance but that we have to start all over, he said he wanted his best friend back and he couldnt lose me again. well i am giving him his space that he needs, and i am trying my best/hardest to get his trust back. he has had trusdt issues with girls in the past, so it is a big deal for him.

what i am asking is: do you think i am wasting his and my time? Will he be able to trust me again, to the point that we can have a wonderful relationship? was it cheating, since we were not yet boyfriend and girlfriend? any tips on how i can get my points back with him?
We were NEVER boyfriend and girlfriend people. So i didnt cheat on him.

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