1 year relationship, Is She Cheating on me or is this guy just a new friend?
Her roomate called me and told me they were in a room together. She made is sound like they were having sex.
GF claims they were just watching a movie. Roomate 2 verifies story and says door was a little open and then GF is madly in love with you and would never do such a thing.
I believed her, but then she lied about who the guy was. First it was a geeky violinist, then it turned out to be this womanizing persian fella. She say’s she’s not attracted to him at all, but that he’s mentioned that he’s attracted to her.
I know i’m untrustworthy, but I’m in LA, she’s in San Francisco, and I really love her. We’ve talked about the future many times. We’re very serious, but this trust issue just broke lose.
Why would she be in a room with another guy, watching a movie together? Why would she lie about it?
She says it’s hard to make friends, that this guy has lots of connections, and she was just using him for some help, nothing more. Just Friends of 2 weeks.
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If she’s that friendly with another guy, she’s either cheating, or just doesn’t respect you or the relationship very much. If you hung out with girls very closely, the way she’s doing with guys, she wouldn’t like it. And she lied, which is clearly red flags. Dump her, she doesn’t seem very serious about you.
She’s not cheating. The roomate sounds very jelous, might have a crush on you. Often girls try to destroy other girls’ relationships. Messed up, but that’s reality. As for the guy in the room, she shouldn’t have done that, but it sounds harmless on her part, just didn’t know any better. She sounds like a great girl, you should hold on to her. Just let her know that it’s not ok to bring a guy over into her room, for a private film showing. Especially if the guys foreign!
cheating
she is a whore
Long distance dosen’t work. Sounds like she’s cheating. Find yourself a local girl and move on.
Definitely cheating.
Give her the benefit of the doubt… don’t just assume girls always cheat if they have male friends… but it is strange that they would be watching a movie privately. I would NEVER do that with another man now… my man would be pissed! Even if it were just friends… that seems strange to me.
I would worry more about growing too close as a friend with another guy… she probably isn’t cheating… but she might if she gets too close.
Who knows.
I’m afraid it doesnt sound good, women love foreign guys, and your not able to be there to keep an eye on her. I wouldnt trust her esspecially after catching her in a little lie so soon after she meets him.
Brother, if she were "very serious" as you say, she wouldn’t put herself in this situation. I think it’s time to rethink things. You and I both know that if we wanted to make friends, we could.
If I was in the bedroom with a lonely girl whose BF is 400 miles away, I wouldn’t be watching a movie…
You know what’s going on but you don’t want to admit it.
Take care of yourself and your business.
the next time you lick her and ask yourself is this what Camel come tastes like
enjoy
She’s definitely cheating on you. There’s no such thing as a guy who’s just a friend. The fact that he openly said that he is attracted to her combined with the fact that they were in a room alone together watching a steamy movie confirms your suspicions. Maybe they weren’t doing what it sounded like, but he’s definitely moving in on your girl and she doesn’t seem to be putting up a fight. I say sleep with her friend, then dump her. That’s ALWAYS the answer.
There is always the possibility of cheating in any realtionship no matter how long the two have been together or how much they love each other. It sounds like she might have cheated on you, but that is just my personal oppinion. If the’ve only known each other for 2 weeks, and he’s foreign, it is a definate possibility. Most of the time, girls will have flings with guys that they haven’t known each other that long, that way if they have to break things up, there arn’t that many emotions envolved. Girls are actually more creative then guys give us credit for.
It is hard to make knew friends, but most girls look for friends in other girls when they are in a serious relationship. If you are insecure of your GF, then you need to have a heart to heart with her and find out what is really going on.
that’s how it starts.if ya’ll are in two diffrent cities,then you kind of have to expect something like this to happen.sorry man,
I would go to her apartment and suprise her. Like take her out for dinner or something. And check up on her. Try to pick a night that you know he’s usually over there. Maybe a friday night or something. Just a night she’s not working. If you find him over there see what happens next.
As a female speaking, it’s great to have a male friend. In our eyes that is what we see but to the male he will always start flirting and it will eventually get on her nerves. I don’t know if to many people can have a relationship like that. Wheather it’s innocent or not, she should have enough respect to not have a guy in her room. My husband has always try to explain that men see everything differently but I just didn’t listen. I now will admit that every guy friend that I have has tried something with me. It sucks being a girl. We want that brotherly guy to hang out with then they always have to screw it up. I can’t say wheather she is messing around or not. I can tell you that you will know. If you feel like she is then more than likely she is. It might be innocent on her part but for a guy to be in a girl’s room that is taken isn’t right. (unless he likes his own type) I am so sorry you have to go through this. Believe me it sucks. It’s not the easiest thing to go through. Don’t bring him up to much. She’ll put her foot in her mouth somehow. Or if you just bring him up casually just listen to her reaction. She may get offended. That will tell you a lot. Good luck