So I went to my sister’s pee wee cheer game and there was this sophomore girl (boyfriend is a sophomore and I’m a freshman) that goes to school with him. She was giving me bad looks and looked like she pretty much wanted to kill me. My mom talked to her at another game my boyfriend and I didn’t go to and she said that my boyfriend was a classmate of hers and that they talk some times. My mom immediately notified me of this and told me to watch out. A few weeks after that, my boyfriend told me that if my mom or my sister says anything that the girl has said to them (Ex: cheating) that’s it’s not true. He also said that if some of his friend’s he hangs out at school with says anything is because they’re jealous and they’re wanting me to break up with him so they can have me. They’ve tried to flirt with me before, but my boyfriend made them stop. A few weeks before this whole situation happened, one of his slutty ex’s tried to get back with him, and that night, he randomly goes to his cousin’s house (on a minute’s notice) (where he met his ex) (his cousin’s girlfriend is sister’s with my boyfriend’s ex) and doesn’t let me talk to him and doesn’t want me calling. The day after, he refused for me to pick him up from his cousin’s house and insisted on walking. A while before that, he dislocated his knee, and he has pain whenever he walks long distances on it, so I really wanted to pick him up. He started getting all defensive and yelling at me. I tried to talk to him but he wouldn’t co operate, so I hung up on him. The day after that, he went back to his cousin’s house and went to a football game, but suggested I shouldn’t go. He said there was family drama and he wanted to meet up with some family to discuss this. I wanted to go but he wouldn’t let me. His phone was turned off at the time of the game too. And while before THIS incident, ANOTHER one of his ex’s messaged me and told me that he was talking to her (which he was) over the phone and that they met up a few times (which I proved wrong), but that they were going to hang out the following weekend which I couldn’t talk to him on. Almost all of this situations are separate, but I’m really nervous about all of this.

Next semester, I’m going to the same school he goes to.

We’re both really jealous, and we’re both working on it, and we’ve improved quite a bit.
I guess we’re both in a vulnerable state right now, but my heart tells me that he’s lying.
Am I just paranoid?
I don’t have a problem with him going to his friends house or his cousins house, but there was just little signs along the way that pointed to the conclusion that he’s cheating.
What do you guys think?
And I’ve confronted him about all of this, and he denies it every time. He promises me that he’d never cheat on me, and I try my hardest not to accuse him of anything he didn’t do, but it’s been weighing me down lately. So yeah, I communicate with him a lot, and there’s like a part of me that says he’d never do that, and then another side of me says that he’s just trying to see how many girls he can get and how long, but I personally think I’m just paranoid.

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