Cheating in a relationship?
I’ve been dating this girl for about a year and a half. For the first year it was pretty much perfect, except for a few obstacles. Sometimes when she wasn’t around I’d cheat verbally with random girls, but I’d tell her everything, always. I could never keep anything from her and I guess being open about it she helped me get through it and I’ve completely stopped for her. Anyways, one day she went out with her friends and I guess she got drunk and made out with this guy. He ended up raping her and for that I don’t know i felt bad and i completely forgot about the whole fact that she cheated on me and all i could think about was how much i loved her and it was just a little making out. A few months later she went out with her friends again and they got high and this guy started talking to her and trying to hook up with her. She fell for it and the next thing i know shes lying to my face about how she had a power outage all day. My friends don’t like her, they never did, and they told me to question her about it because she already cheated on me once. I thought id come up with a story about how I had been talking to my ex behind her back and she started yelling at me about how she lied and cheated on me…at that moment i wanted to die because I felt like i gave her everything and I changed myself which was hard because before i was a huge player and i was extremely flirtatious with EVERY girl i met and i forgave her for cheating on me before. After that it feels like everything’s fallen apart. We’ve been fighting and breaking up every week for about 5 months and its just getting to be too much. Right after she cheated on me i bitched at her and was angry but a day later i told her i forgave her and for about two months she was just pushing me away and it felt like I was paying for something SHE did. I don’t even know anymore..is this relationship worth it anymore? It’s like everytime I want to leave I think about how our relationship was before she cheated and it feels like the only thing that keeps me here is the girl that i used to love..
p.s. Sorry this description’s soo long, i thought the more info i put in maybe the more help i’d get?
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It really is just going to be a series of fights and blowouts over the past. Once someone lies and cheats, its like you have that scar on your relationship forever, and as much as you want to forgive and move on, you will NEVER forget. Unless you truly feel like this is the girl you want to spend your life with, go through hardships with, have kids with, etc, then I say dont put yourself through the headache and heartache and just end things now. The more you drag it on, the worse it will get, and the harder it will be for you to get over her. If the only thing making you hold on to this is the thought of how great things used to be, then just let it go. Things change, people change, and if you’re not evolving and growing together, you need to go your separate ways.
"i was a huge player and i was extremely flirtatious with EVERY girl i met and i forgave her for cheating on me before."
exactly, you did the same to her, and now she’s doing the same thing to you, only this time she’s trying to blame it on the alcohol, if you ask me, both of you are too immature to be in a relationship. because you can’t stay faithful to each other, whether your way of cheating was verbal or not, it was still cheating. the best thing to do is to probably let each other go. she’ll just jump in bed with somebody else.