Is it considered cheating when you watch hentai while in a relationship with someone who’s at a disadvantage?
I really need help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years. I’m 16 and he’s 19. Our relationship is good, both sets of parents approve of the relationship. The only problem is that he watches Lesbian Hentai sex and straight sex. (boy w/ girl). I’m having a problem because he’s going to college in 2 weeks and as of right now I "just" found this out like 4 days ago. I’m freaking out. Though people have told me that watching hentai isn’t cheating, I’d like to hear some of your thoughts. Let me explain, a few days ago I was talking to him about how it makes me feel sooo horrible when guys watch hentai when being w/ someone. At the time I didn’t know he was doing this to me, but I told him that it’s stupid; marriages break up b/c of this. Now that I’ve known, I feel like he’s been cheating on me. He told me when we got into our first fight that I wasn’t good enough. He says since he doesn’t see me enough he feels as though he should avert to Hentai. It turns him on too; I just feel like I’m sharing him with cartoons. I want to be the only thing he loves the only thing that has turn him on, but no, watching girls go at it w/ each other is like his fetish. He’s even admitted it. I feel like I’m at a total disadvantage b/c he’ll be going to college soon and I will have to trust him to make good decisions as of right now I don’t. I feel like I’m not perfect enough to give him his needs , when he says I’m hot and cute, I still now don’t feel like thats enough. In my opinion, when I compare myself to anime girls, I see myself as over weight and ugly. I don’t have pink hair, purple eyes, a tail or ears and I don’t have attractiveness like they do. I feel like I’m sharing him and every time I try to explain this to him I feel like its a struggle to pick between his fetish and Me. I don’t know what to do, he’s not listening to me, he doesn’t understand that I feel like my presence isn’t as perfect as the anime girls. He says that when ever he sees the girls do it or make out it reminds him of me and I’d rather not see myself in them I’m too ugly. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT! I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
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Wow….you seriously need to step backand realize that he’s watching CARTOONS. Just friggin’ cartoons. It doesn’t matter what the girls in the cartoons look like THEY AREN’T REAL.
I honestly can’t say I know of one marriage that has broken up because of cartoons. He’s a young virile guy with raging hormones so naturally he’s attracted to many different things. He might watch cartoons, he might watch real porn, he might even read the occasional Playboy. So what? Its not like he’s out doing another girl. If this stuff keeps him happy, let it go.
CARTOONS! Oh man………..somebody shoot me.
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If he didnt think you were beautiful he wouldnt be with you in the first place. You must look pretty good to him already. Well idk about the hentai. I suppose its better than there being another girl. Honestly idk why we would feel the need to tell you that. Just remember that every girl and woman is beautiful and be proud of your body its the only 1 you got……(wow cheesy but true)
Well let me give you my point of view, I also watch what your boyfriend does. It’s not really that big of a deal. I love watching it because of sexual relief. They’re just random anime girls! Not as if I’m in LOVE with them or anything the way your boyfriend feels about you. Don’t be idiotic, a human girl cannot compare to an anime girl, they aren’t even real. In reality, if your boyfriend had the honor of choosing to have sex with YOU, or watching hentai by himself, the answer is PRETTY OBVIOUS if you ask me. And guys just say the most random bull shit when they’re mad, it’s like automatic for guys to be impulsive, a guy is in a relationship with a girl when he thinks she is the possible woman in his future. Anime girls aren’t real. He’s not cheating on you and if he preferred to be with anime girls then just dump him already, he’s a loser. To me, hentai is just a way of releasing that sexual frustration, no big deal. It’s normal for a guy to have this kind of fetish. Later on when the years pass his fetish will go away.
Good luck with your relationship.
let me tell you something. I watch hentai, I don’t have a girlfriend. If I would have a girlfriend I would love it if she would also watch hentai. The reason for me to wacht hentai is thet normal porn is quite dull, because it’s to fake. ok, I have to admit that I also wacht porn so I can get the job done in less time. but I want to make a point.
If he really likes you, than that should be good enough. Love isn’t about the outside of a person. I’ts about the person he is, the inside. If you love him bad enough then just talk about hentai, show interest. This way, you can get used to it. Also, find more information about hentai (because it’s based on sexual fantasy’s and intense love).
I think that the ‘love the inside of a person’ point even is written in the bible.
summary:
end your fight, let him know you love him, accept that he has the freedom to watch every kind of (legal) porn, even hentai.
PS: most guy’s are shy, and don’t talk to girls easy. If he is like that, you must take the first step.
PPS: real guy’s sometimes like it if girls show some ‘balls’(but not over do it)
PPPS: don’t become as skinny as anime/hentai girls. It’s lethal.