Wife Cheating..?
Usually a woman cheats cause her husband or bf doesnt treat them right, or no love. Its different for me, I never cheated on my wife, or never had intentions 2.
Well we went to church, she got saved. So now she wanted to tell me her secrets and past.
We’ve been marry for 5 years. During the marriage she said she met a guy at work, and digged him. And they started having an affair. She told me during the whole relationship she cheated with 2 guys. She kept 1 man for a year on the side, then had another man after that. I asked her why she did, and she said that she has a different sexual drive. She got bored, and wanted to see more. She basically blamed it on her needs. then she told me I treated her respect, and that God showed her we were meant. After she got saved, she felt guilty, and wrong of it.
I guess woman who cheat dont get caught….I never caught her, she had to tell me after years. Thought i trusted her.
What do i do…I love her, but Now i think of her cheating! Help
Oh yeah and i guess her girlfriends do the same as she did….sad huh.
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OK, just a few thoughts, but she had an ongoing RELATIONSHIP for OVER A YEAR… that is so far beyond just a minor cheating episode and a lame excuse of being drunk.
That is just unforgivable… think about it in terms like this:
Scenario #1 - If someone in the heat of the moment does something wrong and feels guilty about it and stops doing it… isolated incident, the person is redeemable.
Scenario #1 - Someone for over a year keeps doing something… knowing it is wrong, but uses a lame excuse to justify it… Something is not right in the hard wiring for right/wrong.
Just because she found God and feels guilty NOW, what if she gets bored again in a year or two?
What if she "Falls Away" from the Church? What will happen then? The source of her guilt will be gone so how long will she be with the next guy?
Cut this one loose and move on. I have little tolerance for cheaters… but she cheated and betrayed the marriage by having a separate relationship on the side, and not just one but 2 separate relationships.
get rid of her. thats bulls*it. besides if all her whore gf’s still do it, shes always going to be tempted to do it again. you dont need that. end it now and get it over with. i dont care how "saved" she is.
Wow! Well if you believe her then give her another chance but with counseling so you can get past your hurt, it helps.
If you feel you can never trust her again then you need to move on because there is no relationship without trust.
this is kind of a tough one to answer ..its kind of whatever you think you should do about it…however im a strong believer in god and if she sais that he showed her you two were meant for eachother than it must be meant to be..and you have to give her some credit for coming out and telling you about this
I feel for you man but the fact that you didnt catch her and she actually came forward and told you about shows that she really wants to make things right. If she was going to continue cheating on you, don’t you think she would have kept all this a secret? I’d give her the chance to make it right.
wow! well this certainly is different that being caught. Sounds like she is on the right path now. You just need to find a way to deal with it now. You both sould get some counseling from you pastor as it doesn’t sounds like you are going to throw in the towel. She should feel guilty but she loves you enough tell you but unfortunatly she really didn’t think of the after affects… Good luck to you…..also, he girlfriends do it? I don’t know of any of my friends that do it and I have a lot of girlfriends!
I am so sorry your wife decided to disclose this terrible past to you. Notice I used the word PAST…that’s just what it is, she chose you and she loves you. She just should have NEVER told you any of this, it’s damaging.
She thought she was doing the right thing by telling you. Sounds like she really is remorseful and loves you very much. You both have God on your side…give it some time.
Your wounds will begin to heal…it just takes a lot of time. She needs to understand that you will not just "get over" this…you need her to patiently wait while you let this information soak in.
Think long and hard…you probably ignored the signs that she was having an affair. Do not repeat this mistake again…denial is dangerous. She obviously needed more attention than she was getting at that time.
Give her more attention…turn to each other during this difficult time…you can get through this. Good Luck and God bless.
First of all, I’m so sorry you had to undergo such circumstances in your life. Secondly, if you truly love her and you really think she changed for good, then I guess if you can find it in your heart to forgive her, do so. I think some couple’s councelling should really be seeked if you choose to stay because there might be feelings/problems that still need to be worked out, regardless.
But if you think she hasn’t truly changed, and maybe she’ll go back to her cheating ways, then I suggest you leave and move on. There are a lot of people in this world. I am sure that if you look for her, there will be a woman who will love you and not hurt you that way. If you really are as respectful and loyal as you say, then you deserve someone who is the same.
leave her.please.
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Do not take that kind of behavior. You deserve more than this. You need to get away from her, and I mean fast. Now, I’m not one to generally believe in divorce, but this for sure is a reason.
You can never trust anyone like this, and she has probably slept with no telling how many different men by now.
I know it may be hard if you still love her, but you will eventually get over it, and in the long run it will be better for you.
There are terms for a woman like this, but I won’t use them out of respect for you.
Do u believe in second chance?
It seems like she is a better person becuz she didnt have to tell u but she did becuz she wanted too, so maybe she does deserve a second chance, what worries me about her was that there was a 2end man for a whole year, that means she got used to lying to u like it was second nature. Then a SECOND man, but ir ur decision
she has acknowledged her wrong, which means she feels remorse, and wants her marriage to work. if u love her seek some spiritual therapy, don’t focus on what is past and already done.
Its in her nature. First: having a guy on the side for a year. Second, doing another man! Drop it. Your better off. Find a nice girl at church. Chicks are a dime a dozen. It not un-Godly to have standards and think about your own safedty once in a while.
Dang…She’s good. You’ll probably never catch her if she decided to swing out again!