I just snapped at my girlfriend… was I right in doing so?
Hey guys, here’s the situation. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a while now, almost a year. We’re both seniors in high school.
Anyways, today in the morning she called me and told me, yesterday she and her friends went to the mall yesterday and that they saw some actor from some upcoming movie there. She was going on about how good-looking he was. She was like, "Oh my god, he was so hot!" I didn’t want to say too much, so I said, "Oh wow, that must of have been cool." She keeps going on and going about him, until I made up an excuse to get off the phone.
Tonight she calls me again. We talk for a bit until she starts talking him again. I’m thinking to myself I don’t care, why the hell are you telling me this. She tells me how good looking he is and that he has a six-pack. I was getting really angry inside. Then, I finally snapped and started using four-letter profane words. I was cussing and everything. I said something along the lines of,
"I don’t give a sh’it about this motherfu’cker, why the f’uck are you telling me this."
I was so mad… Maybe it was jealousy, maybe not. It’s not like I’m ugly or anything. I don’t have a major six-pack, but that doesn’t mean I’m scrunny or anything. I’m a martial artist and a football player. I mean, I’m a guy. I see a lot of girls and check them out; however, I wouldn’t cheat on my girlfriend, and I would never start praising other girls in front of her like that - whether or not they’re celebrities or not.
I would never bring up how sexy Megan Fox looked in her latest movie or anything like that.
I’m so mad right now that my girlfriend had the audacity to do such a thing.
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Whilst that was pretty insensitive of her, you probably could have handled that a bit better.
Having said that, after a year she should really know you well enough to detect your feelings in your voice, and it seems pretty cold to keep bringing it up. Take it up with her again calmly, and ask her how she would feel if the roles were reversed. I would say you both owe each other an apology. =]
On another note, it’s good to see someone who actually knows how to employ the English language properly. Kudos to you good sir!
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You shouldn’t have waited.
I would’ve told her immediately (in a relaxing manner) that I really don’t want to hear how inferior I am compared to actors and how I can’t be as hot as them.
Trust me they will feel bad.
Sorry, about that, I know how you feel. But am sure you are now madder about the way you treated your gal and I think you need to apologise to her and explain to her not to do that in the future
You maybe went a little far but you were right that she shouldn’t have been talking to you about stuff like that.
It sounds like jealousy on your part and insensitivity on her part. Sorry but there is no winner. You owe each other an apology.
I wouldn’t say you were wrong, but you could of dealt with this better. I suggest you give her a call and apologize for going off the way you did. Explain to her how you felt every time she brought him up. Explain to her that you don’t expect her to never look at another guy, but that you don’t want to hear all the details like you are one of her girlfriends. Out of respect for her, you don’t go on and on about a hot actress from a movie and you just want the same level of respect. And… you are smart not to tell her how hot Megan Fox is, she would be very upset over it. Good luck.
You really should have used some self control and not snap at her. Clearly she is in the wrong when she is verbally ogling some other man in your presence. That was disrespectful on her part and I will never make an excuse for her. That being said, you could have handled it better by asking her, "Why are you drooling over this guy in front of me?" How would she like it if you were to harp about Megan Fox’s body in her presence. If you are a man who is secure with himself, then you need to keep in mind that your girlfriend is with you and not with some Hollywood actor. So what difference does it make?
I think that you should’ve told her you didn’t want to hear it when she kept going on and on before you got angry. It was jealousy but it’s normal, but maybe you should apologize after you calm down and just explain that you would prefer for her to talk to her friends about things like that.
She should not have been acting like this with you. I love my guy so much I would never want to say stuff like that to hurt him. Besides my guy is the hottest and sweetest man I have ever known and I only have eyes for him. Maybe you need to find you a girl that thinks you are the hottest guy in the world. I would think that I would have snapped too, if my guy started acting like that about another woman.
Explain the situation to her and stuff. Say your sorry and didn’t mean to go off on her the way you did & explain that you were jealous and stuff.
At the end of the day, who does your girlfriend call, you or the actor? Get a grip dude.