Can my lover’s wife ruin my family life if she discloses my long time extramarital affair w/her husband?

I have been having an extramarital affair with a married man for several years. We met in the United Arab Emirates, where we both worked, we were alone, and away from our families. He was rich, attractive and lonely. I support my husband and children in the Philippines with my meager earning, I couldn’t resist the temptation to fall for this man, mostly because he showed interest in me and showered me with a lot of love, gifts, money and trips around the world. In exchange I loved him a lot and we developed an intimate sexual relationship as well. After we both left that country and went back to our country, we kept in close contact over telephone, e-mail and instant messages. Finally, after his insistence, inspiration and financial help, I went to the country where he was living with his family. In the beginning, he kept it a complete secret from his wife & was spending long days and evenings with me. After a couple of months, his wife got suspicious about his behavior, staying out of the house for a long period of time, his appearance, etc. and checked his phone logs. She called the unknown number which was mine. Of course, I didn’t talk to her. My lover became more careful, but we kept seeing each other. I had no problem as my husband was back in the country with the children and my friends were very cooperative. But my lover’s wife started to dig more and some how she got into his e-mail account. Found a lot of e-mail from me, luckily most of them were dirty jokes and correspondence with various doctors. My lover was on kidney dialysis and looking for a donor. I helped him corresponding with many doctors all over the world. Unfortunately, there were two personal e-mail from both of us, which my lover forgot to delete. His wife was furious & threatened to divorce him, but my lover came up with an excuse & told her that he pretended to be in love with me because I promised to donate a kidney. Also, he promised to be a good boy & stop all contacts with me. I guess, considering his health condition, his wife took him in.

But of course, we kept in touch, writing, seeing, calling each other, but this time with extra caution. After a few months, my lover had to leave the country to get a kidney transplant so that he could live a normal life. Things got worse after his departure, his wife somehow went into his e-mail account and found some recent e-mail from both of us. She even checked with his office in the UAE and found out more about our love affair in that country. She also found more proof about our trips to Bangkok and other countries. Since she got suspicious she checked his bank account and found out that he spent a lot of cash before and after my arrival to his country. Now his wife hates both of us, she is determined to divorce him and tell my husband about my affair with her husband. She called my husband twice (found my home number in my lover’s notebook). She said, since I ruined her marriage, she would ruin mine. But fortunately, my husband doesn’t know much English and she was not able to communicate with him but she told everything to my 17 y/o daughter, who spoke as an interpreter. Obviously, my daughter kept my affair hidden from my husband. I’m scared what if the wife of my lover sends all the documents to my husband!

I sincerely love this man (my lover), he told me that his wife treated him like a dog, and treated me so preciously, I want to be with him but I don’t want to leave my husband. My husband and children live on my salary, but do you think he will dare live me if he finds out about my secret life?

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