Is my wife cheating on me? I found an email that may point to it.?
Ok, well I always had known that my wife is a little more sexually adventurous than I am. However I didn’t expect this.
What I am looking for is, is this email ok or should I be worried?
I was on our laptop just doing something silly like facebook or something. I noticed my wife’s email account is open on another tab. (She was just on the laptop before I was).
So I was being nosey (yea, I know that wasn’t right).
But I found an email to some guy that she knows from years ago. I have no idea who this guy is nor have I met him before. There was a email from this guy telling my wife about his sexual relationship with his wife. He was pretty descriptive. He was saying like positions, and that is was rough and even more things about what they did for foreplay.
I was shocked but figured my wife couldn’t control this because it was an incoming email. So I scrolled up and seen my wife’s response. Her response was about her and I. Now she was REALLY descriptive, she mentioned about our foreplay, she mentioned what I do to her and what she likes. She mentioned is great detail positions and if it was rough or hard and that sort of things. I mean it was REALLY REALLY descriptive. What shocked me is that some of the stuff made me wonder, why doesn’t she tell me this. I mean she does tell me stuff, but I’m her husband. So the last email is what pissed me off. He said to her " WOW I WOULD LOVE TO WATCH YOU GET FU**ED! " .
I brought this up to my wife and she said that it is an old manager that she knows from like 10 years ago from a company that she is no longer at. I was pissed. I didn’t know what to do at the time and I still don’t. I kinda told her I was "ok" with it but I’m really not. So is this a big deal, should I worry? What should I tell my wife?
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Personally I think it is disrespectful to discuss your private sexual relationship outside of the relationship unless in a counselling situation or something like that. But to talk of it with a casual friend is wrong. Men get the reputation for boasting with the lads as to conquests and any guy who did that to me would not stay in my life. It is private between you two and no one else and this guy is clearly getting off on it and who knows but I guess your wife is getting some sort of thrill out of the exchange too.
Well I cant imagine I would ever do that, so it’s hard to get inside someone else’s head. If she’s that open sexually, I personally think it would make her more likely to cheat. But even if she isn’t cheating, I still think that kind of discussion with another man is very inappropriate
Just trying to be honest and helpful ….
Maybe she left it open for you to read on purpose.
If she’s not cheating , she’s thinking about it or it turns her on to talk with him about all that.
If she was really trying to hide that email from you she probably wouldn’t have left it open for you to be able to read.
If you find it is troubling you then you obviously should be talking to her about this.
That’s weird. You would think if she had emails like that going on she would be WAY more careful to logout after she was finished, unless she’s just totally careless. Maybe she really did want you to see it for some reason. Whatever the case, don’t pretend about how you feel. It is important to tell her how much it bothers you and why. Maybe she is trying to hint to you that she’d like to do some kinky sh*t. You need to be like okay, what is going on?
Even if she’s not physically cheating, this type of thing is considered cheating in divorce court. Consider that.
You’ve every right to be upset, and I don’t see why you would try to hide it. You are not demanding the respect you deserve as a husband.
Write this guy an e-mail and tell him he’ll have to deal with you the next time he wants to communicate.
I think it is not on what your wife is doing.
Sex is a private thing between you and your wife.
I would be so angry if i were you and you should put your foot down and tell her you don’t like it.
I would also email him and tell him to leave your wife alone else you will contact his wife and let her know what’s going on.
Give a warning to your wife and that other fellow.
If possible, keep a copy of the mail, that might help later (but hopefully, you might not need).
You can share this with the wife of that other fellow. That will be a perfect fit of rage.
Yes it is a big deal. This is crossing an intimate barrier which should be exclusively between husband & wife and when one breaks this by communicating personal feelings or desires like this back & forth with someone else it gets dangerous and can be classed as emotional cheating.. this can often build up to a physical affair between the two. You need to tell her how you really feel & ideally insist all contact is stopped with him.
I would personally never discuss my sex life with another man like this. I am really open with my girl friends but we never get that descriptive about our sex lives. Seems weird.
It’s really a BIG DEAL, a lot of affairs start online with emails and internal messages, then move on to the actual sexual contact. I don’t think your wife has actually met him yet for real sex, but everything is pointing towards that be the ultimate goal of them both.
It seems they are performing cyber sex right now and getting lustful feelings stirred up with each other.
Cyber sex is a form of cheating, no matter how you look at it. She breached your trust in her.
You should tell her you are unhappy with her antics on the computer and let her know that your sex life with her isn’t something you want spread over a computer with some guy you don’t know.
I would tell her to nip this sh*t in the bud.
You should be aware that cheating spouses will lie when caught, it’s their first response.
You might want to monitor her cell phone. See what numbers she calls most frequently and how long she talks to the person with that number, also check her sent Text messages, after all she has given you just reason to be suspicious now.
You have every right to snoop.
If you want to capture in more detail what she does on the computer there are several good computer spyware programs you can install on it and she will never know it’s there.
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It’s not expensive and well worth the price to find out whats going on between your wife and this guy if there is more than meets the eye.
You seem like a great guy; Really. Why didn’t you tell her how you really felt from the begining? Yes, I’d worried. I mean your wife is basically on-line telling some guy that she knows all of you guys bussiness and that’s not right. I find that strange and too revealing. I’m not married, but this kind of stuff worries me espically in this section.
she may be thinking about it
Wow! Your wife is giving details to another man and his sharing with your wife. Why would you tell her it did not bother you? Your wife is crossing the boundaries of your marriage and you allow her by telling her your ok with it. Come on, sit your wife down and tell her your not okay with it. Would you wife want you to share details of what you do with an ex-coworker of yours. It does not prove something happened, they could have very well described such things in the past, but she is disclosing what is personal which can open up all kind of doors. I am sure the guys wife would be just as pissed to find out, unless they are in an open relationship. But you stated your wife is already adventurous, you need to put a curb on some of her adventures. Good luck.