Help me pull the rug out from under my cheating husband?
My husband of 15 yrs has been cheating on me for at least two years, since I got cancer. He’s on dating sites saying he’s SINGLE, and sending money to women all over the world in attempts to get them to come meet him in another country (while lecturing me for spending what he thinks is too much money on CHEESE and other groceries!!!!). I haven’t confronted him, but just asked him to leave the house (which he did, no questions asked, so he must know that I found out something, but doesn’t know exactly what or how much I know).
It is obvious that he is being scammed (at least to me, apparently not to him!). The pictures of two of these people he’s been in contact with and has sent money to were easy to identify because they are actresses that are well known. But there’s another, one to whom he has sent THOUSANDS of dollars and has had online relationship with (x-rated chats, emails, and pics) for over two years, that I don’t recognize. How do I go about finding the original source for a photograph online if I don’t have a real name to use to try to find it? I need definitive proof that this is another scammer to take to court (and, of course, humiliating him with it will be a nice bonus).
Thanks,
Samia
Don’t get hung up on the "cheese". It was meant to describe how incredibly petty he is when in comes to spending on his family (me and our 3 kids).
I don’t live in the US, so no "Cheaters"; also no private investigators. I am not afraid to confront him; I just don’t want him to know exactly what or how much I know at this point. I have already kicked him out of the house and plan to get on with my life. What I need is definitive EVIDENCE to present in court in order to better my position and hopefully get more money out of him. I have his laptop, and I have looked through everything on it, as well as getting into his email for a day until he figured out something was up and changed his password, but I don’t have access to his computer at work. And yes, I am having a few online romances with him myself, posing as cute blonde things that are 40 years younger than him. PLEASE, can someone just suggest how I can find the original source for particular photos online, or at least some way to narrow down the search? Thanks.
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contact the TV show "Cheaters"
What’s with the CHEESE thing?
Does he not realize that anyone who asks for money over the internet is a scammer. he is being taken for a ride and he is stupid enough not to see it. Divorce the bum and go after alimony and anything else you can get so he has no money to send to these homewrekers on the other end of the internet,
let me start off with, one can never spend too much money on cheese…If i were you I would be done with it. I don’t think you can find out who that person in the photo. The sooner you are divorced , the better off you are.
Why don’t you confront him? Are you afraid of him? What is the worst thing that can happen? He’ll leave you. At least, if you confront him, you will learn what kind of person he is. It will also strengthen your self confidence. Check out my "source" for more info on how to confront your husband.
Why not just file for divorce and move on with your life.
you need to start a on line romance with him and get yourself some of that money .send him photos of some girl you think he would like from a porn mag.and have fun pulling the carpet from under him .
This is what I did. I called a lawyer and they got me in touch with a private investigator. It was the best thing I ever did (incidentally, my ex. used to get mad at me for spending too much on energy drinks, while he was out screwing around too). Find out your information and see a lawyer today so you can keep some of that money in your pocket. Good luck!
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