MY brother is cheating on his wife RIGHT NOW !!!!!!!!!(help)?
ok so my older sister n i called all 5 stars hotels n we FOUND him .. he told my sis in law he went to a whole different state for a "business" trip but WE know he wouldn’t want to drive that far [19 hr drive] .. Sooo hes about 5 hrs away my sis found him he hasn’t checked in .. we don’t know what to do .. tell my sis in-law ? that’s very close to us or leave him cheating … talking to him doesn’t help .. i would want to drive over there but unfortunately we cant [LONG STORY]……. he has 2 beautiful kids youngest one is 1 yr old .. before he left he was suppose to buy milk 4 the kids n didn’t ! … SO should we call ?? tell my sis in-law ? leave him a message with someone that works there ? .. hes the type of guy that will Deny it till the end until u have proof .. any advice will help
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Hire a private detective via the Yellow Pages in the city where his hotel is to take pictures.
mind your bisness
Stay out of it. Not your problem. Not your business.
In my opinion, I would let them handle their own problems. I know it’s tempting to tell her. In time, the truth always comes out. Watch and see.
Talk to your brother and let him know you’re onto him, and that he needs to either fly straight from now on, or you’re going to rat on him because his wife and children deserve better. Say it’s his choice… either stop cheating and fix his marriage, or keep being selfish, with consequences.
IMO, it’s immoral and unethical to watch someone do wrong, and do nothing to stop it. That makes you an enabler. Have higher moral standards, especially for those you are related to. If you don’t pressure him to make better choices, who will?
I would tell. Just because I would hope that someone would tell me if they caught my husband cheating. And same for him, he would want to know if his wife was cheating.
Let him know that you know, and then just stay out of it for now. If you see that his affair is affecting his kids then and only then do you get in it.
First question - why did you suspect he was cheating in the first place?
Second question - is it possible since he’s driving 19 hours that he’s staying at a hotel for the night and then continuing on to the state his business is in?
It’s awesome you are close to and looking out for your sister, but you could be doing her and your brother a lot of damage if you aren’t 100% sure. Especially if she is alone with the kids all weekend and can’t talk to him face to face. She’ll be a mess!
I guess third question would be, if he said he was driving 19 hours away, how did you know which hotels to call to see if he was there?
I don’t think you should tell her anything unless there is solid proof. Chances are she will side with him/be in denial and you will lose your friendship with her.
What ashame when someone feels they have to cheat on their spouse & their beautiful family. NO, I would not, could not hurt my sister in law & tell her what’s going on, She IS going to find out at some point in time. Knowing me tho, I’d be telling him you know what’s going on w/him cheating, know just where he was, but you can’t be that mean to hurt his wife & tell her. Ask him how can he do this against his wife & kids who love him. I’d also let him know he’s going to get caught one of these days, when he does, he’s on his own as you sure aren’t going to get involved or hurt anyone…the best to you…:)
If he is driving 19 hours to get to this place, this reservation could be where he is stopping for the night to rest. It does not mean that he is cheating.
If he is cheating, his wife will find out and it will be her problem to deal with. I think you and your sister should butt out. You could be causing a lot of trouble for an innocent man.
Go ahead and tell your sis-in-law. why?! Because there are kids involved. And if your brother confronts you about it, gets pissed and blames you……its his own fault and it shows how even more selfish he is.. If there were no kids involved, I would probably say no, but since there are kids(your blood) involved…tell her.
if that was my bro i would smack him upside his head with a 2 by 4. i think you should get proof and tell your sis in law. let her know you love her and will want to still be her friend no matter what she chooses.