Cheated on my husband. How do I redeem myself?
A few weeks back I had a flight to Ireland to see my parents. On the way there I was talking quite a bit with one of the flight attendants. After the flight we sat around for a while and the next thing I know I’m going to her hotel room…
I still haven’t told my husband about this. I don’t know what to do. I just go back from Ireland two days ago and every day has been torture.
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The guilt will go away slowly but it will go away. If you enjoyed the experience then divorce him and never get married again or if you didnt enjoy it and it was a bad experience then just admit to your self that it was a stupid mistake. If you tell him there is nothing he can do about it. Honestly your relationship is in tuff shape or it wouldnt have been so easy. Do you feel bad because you have hurt him or is it just that you dont want to lose half of your stuff in a divorce. There is no redemption, just moving on. Sorry
I think the rule is two wrongs make a right… so if you do it again all will be forgiven.
You need to be honest and tell him, and tell him how sorry you are. But don’t be too surprised if he’s upset, he has every right to be. We cant guess how your husband will react, but being honest as soon as you can is the right thing to do.
dont tell him learn from your mistakes and move on. If you tell him it will start war between you too. He will start to cheat and he wont forgive you. Only tell him if you want a divorce
You tell him and see what he want’s to do. If you’re not in marriage counseling you’ll probably want to start. He’s gonna have to trust you, you’ll have to show him that you can be trusted. It’ll take time.
If he doesn’t know, and no one else knows, and you aren’t going to do it again, then don’t tell him. It will only hurt him. If you are planning on staying together, then you need to keep this to yourself. I know that this will get a lot of thumbs-down, but what good will it do to tell him? It will make you feel better because you came clean, and it will make him feel worse. By not telling him, you will have to live with the guilt, and he will get to go on happy.
have a 3 some w/your husband. you are obviously bi.