It is said you should always trust your instincts?
Well, I have this feeling that my husband isn’t being quite honest with me. I really don’t think it’s another woman. Something else. But I don’t know what. Maybe drugs or a gambling problem, or being somewhere or being friends with people he knows would upset me. Just something is not right. Heck for all I know he could secretly be planning to join a Monastery. I doubt it, but it’s along those lines. Definitely not cheating. I know him well enough to know that, on the same hand I know him enough that something is "off". What should I do? I don’t want to be one of those people that spy or stalk a spouse and make them give up their personal freedom simply because I’m feeling something. But, I just know in my heart of hearts something is up. And there have been clues, which I don’t feel need to be discussed, that somewhat support my feelings. We’ve been together for thirty years, so I really don’t need answers from someone who does not understand what a lifetime commitment is. To put it more bluntly, teenagers that know everything but forgot it all.
Of course, I have talked to him. It leads no where. I thought that went without saying.
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You never stated if you two have had a discussion yet over what your gut is telling you.
All I can suggest beside that is to monitor his spending/banking habits, cell/email activity & how much time he spends away from you.
The worst thing you could do right now is accuse him of something you have no proof to back up (Men will lie their way out of everything if given the opportunity).
Be strong & control your mind.
I doubt you will be left wondering very much longer.