Does the other woman of an affair ever feel guilt?
How does the other woman feel during an extramarital affair, does she normally change her mind and say I want out of this mess.
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I am one of those "other women". I felt guilty. When his wife went away, (she wanted a trial separation because of other marital issues,)he and I got even more emotionally closer. But.. when he and I would talk, I knew there was a part of him that still loved her. They had a child and for the sake of the child,I told him to call her up at ask her to please come home and try one more time with their marriage. It broke my heart to have him call her to come back home. People need to know that sometimes in extramarital affairs, the people having the affairs are not complete ***holes.We do feel guilty, and for myself. My love for him is unconditional. Getting out of the mess is easier said than done.
Guilt…yes
Want out of the mess….yes
I was the other guy and I felt like shit
Im sure she does but you have to also keep in mind in most situations like this the man is feeding her a bunch of BS to make her feel like its the wives fault for him in his situation.
I think only if the man lied to her and made it seem like he wasn’t married.
You have to remember that a woman can have sex WITH ANY MAN IN THE WORLD. So women are naturally more selective. If a woman gets into an affair, that’s what she wants to do, and so wouldn’t feel guilty.
No I don’t think that she does if she did why would she do it in the first place.she only looking out for self…the rest of the person’s family means nothing to her or could she has put her or him self in the place of the other partner….not to care for the kids or the mate just what they want and when they want it so no no no !
I think all of that depends on the marriage. I have had a few affairs with married men before and I feel no guilt. Of course all of my lovers have been older men who are needing something more than they are getting at home. I really think of myself more as a martial aide rather than a home wrecker.
I am a major part of the reason my lovers have stayed married as long as they have…Life often gets in the way of marriage..kids..money..
menopause and sometimes down right boredom.
Just my take on the situation.
No.. because if she did she would have never crossed that line with the married man in the first place. She has no feelings for the man’s wife because when she is with the man she lives in the moment of only thinking about him and herself. The only person that should ever feel anything over something like this at all could be the man that is deceiving his wife. If he is doing this then he evidently doesn’t feel much about her either. The mistress is all about the relationship that she has with the married man because after all the husband is filling her head to get what he wants from her and she is vulnerable enough to believe it.
yes and no…. i did it with one guy for a long time. this was way before i was married and he was married. he did feed me all kinds of BS about how his marriage was, but i didn’t want a committment from him, just wanted intimacy that we were both missing. Did i feel bad? no… however, now i feel bad about it since I AM someone’s wife. I would be crushed if the tables were turned. but i do now know and understand, men cheat because they are missing something at home.
I am sure after so long she would get to this point. I think she would start wanting something more, and most married men will never leave their wife, and also she knows even if she did want a relationship, it would not be with this guy because she knows how he would be in a real relationship.
I felt bad once I found out she existed.
I know a lot of women who have had affairs and they did not feel any guilt. Women are really harsh to other women and often think that if the wife wasn’t doing something "wrong" then the man wouldn’t go looking. Somehow that "excuses" the other woman’s behavior. Likewise, a lot of women who have been cheated on blame the other woman — hello, the man was there too and HE was the one married to you.
The woman who had an affair with my husband felt no guilt. In fact, she was convinced she was doing something awesome for his kids because he was now "happy". Self-delusion is a wonderful thing.
Difficult question to answer w/a simple yes or no.
Reason being is there’s different reasons why you become the other woman,
1 - you need to have sex and the one you want to have it with is the one you want or better yet, he approached and seduced you and you were just willing and able to.
2 - loveless relationship of our own… feeling trapped and no way out, The reason for that is, family, kids, financial etc. all this plays a big part in why ppl stay in relationships.
Does it make it any better to have an affair, No! But while it’s happening, it is the right thing at that moment and you feel alive.
This was my heart and soul speaking and it’s the first time i’ve ever said anything to anyone.
Yes I feel quilty. I am in the midst of one now. No sex yet, but I wish I didn’t have such an attraction for him, and him I. Intense Chemistry. I want him to be happy and if he is really happy with his wife he should work it out…but obviously he isn’t happy. I am now trying to figure out how to let go of a man that I feel such an enormous love for goodbye. It hurts being the other woman….and yes I feel quilty…but when you have a “connection” with someone it is a lot harder. For now I am praying….
It was never meant to happen. I had been celibate for 4 years and I suspect things are not going well in his marriage. I\\\’m not sure. Ours was an intense and wild connection. I am horrified by what we\\\’ve done but more so, I hate what I\\\’ve done to a woman who is indeed older than my own mother. She surely does not deserve this and I am adamant it will never happen again. He has since returned home to his family and I trying to heal from the experience. I have admitted everything to my fiance and now want to break of our engagement in order to work things out in my own mind.