cheating spouse?

13 Comments

1. Callie says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   You could just straight out ask him. Generally speaking, most people already know the answer before asking the question. Good luck!
2. Louella R says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   if he comes home from work or bowling and he is cleaner then when he left..he is cheating
3. Flaming Idiot says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   Have some with a video recorder follow him. Or do it yourself in a rental car.
4. The Mrs. says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   I think there are many things that look suspicious, however the only real way is to actually catch him or have him (or her) spill the beans. How you do that..I don’t know. I think that is what every woman who has suspicions is looking for.
5. dynsapp says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   When they change up their routine for no reason and you are not included. New friends you do not know.
6. casper says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   Go with your gut. If he starts acting differently, secretive, and stand off-ish. If he smeels or looks clean when he’s suppose to be coming from work. If you smell a perfume that isn’t your’s. You will know. Trust your gut.
7. jayg011 says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   Just ask him! Do not wait a second…ask and see the reaction. Watching his behavior is not always a true indicator as to whether he is cheating or not. Look him straight in the eyes and ask.
   Good luck!
8. crazygrl says:

   March 14, 2010 at

   the only best confirmation i can think of is….catching him on the act! all others are just figments of imagination.
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   March 14, 2010 at

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10. Michael Monsters says:

    March 14, 2010 at

    i think you shouldnt have to ask this question. but hey i would follow him, see if he goes to a hotel or some other house when he says hes going to work or something. catch him lying about his whereabouts.
11. princessblaise39 says:

    March 14, 2010 at

    Bluff him. Tell him you know, tell him that you have proof and ask him what he intends to do about it. you dont have to produce the proof. Saying a couple of people told you is always good and that they have been seen. Good luck it’s a horrible feeling and your generally right when you have those feelings – sorry.
12. kilobosch says:

    March 14, 2010 at

    My husband worked third shift, we are a really close family, my husband and I are always respectful and considerate towards each other. We are also Christians, and I would have never thought that I would be in a situation like yours….. but I was. He started coming home later after work, and would tell me that he had to work over but I noticed that on his checks he wasn’t getting paid any more than normal, he would tell me that work must have messed up his check and he’d talk to them. Then our cell phone bill started going through the roof, so I got on line to look at our bill and there we 750 text on his monthly bill, I thought that was a little excessive, back then you could click on a certain thing and it would let you read all the texts….. THAT is when I found out….. it crushed me… I was sooo naive! We ended up working it out, and I personally confronted the girl (not one of my prouder moments as a Christian!) and dared my husband to go back to work at the job! We didn’t just stay together (it wasn’t that easy.) I made him jump through hoops to stay with me, and the fact that we have two little girls played a lot into my decision. Basically I told him he didn’t deserve me. I hope things work out for you, sometimes I wished I had never found out because it’s been three yrs. and I still have a hard time forgetting and trusting him. I still have bad dreams…. it’s a horrible heart breaking situation to go through. I still feel totally inadequate, and second guess the wife and mother that I am!
13. Bob G says:

    March 14, 2010 at

    Wow, most of you just assumed it was the husband. Interesting!