Wife in extramarital affair?
my wife was in an affair for six months with a married man who stays in the neighborhood, they met twice, the first time from work and shared a lift going home from her work place in the guys car, the second time from close to home to work and she says the meeting was coincidental after a week. between the two lifts they were exchanging smses and on the second lift they kissed and she says it was a peck as it was in the morning. from then on they communicated by email and my wife sent 16emails in total during that period. in the emails she would say she loved him very much and missed him badly and also that even if she didn’t get to see him she loved him and he was always on her mind. in one email she told him of her sexual preferences and inquired when this would happen. at some point they were asking each other if they could make time to have another kiss and this never materialised. She doesnt recall who could have said i love you first in their discussions. After asking her about the liasion ,she claims that she hardly knew the guy and there was no way she could have loved the guy but was just flirting. Could this be just flirting or an outright affair where she was looking for sex. She also says she would not sleep with another man
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She is a cheater. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.
She’s a liar. Plan for and then get a divorce. She will do it again.
you deserve better. go find it. divorce her.
Without detracting from Liam, if that is all that happened, it wasn’t an affair.
However, if there are kids involved, please work it out.
I would watch her like a hawk! She is looking for the next guy, and if I was you, I would set her straight and let her know you will not put up with that shit! If she was my wife, her shit would be on the front lawn on fire and the locks would get changed!
Leave that woman man!
I don’t think your wife cheated. I think she was enjoying the attention from another man. Even in all the emails it was not mentioned that they actually had "sex". So, I would believe her give her one more chance and let her know not to slip again. People do that in marriage sometimes, you just have to guide them in the right direction. If everybody started divorcing just on speculation, nobody would be married.
Unless, you don’t have solid proof that they slept together don’t divorce her work on it.
Man oh man, do you think you deserve that? Do you believe her? She might just like the fantasy but the bottom line is any emotional romantic attachment to a man is an affair. Doesn’t matter is intercourse ever happened the intent is there. It’s up to you to decide can you forgive and let it go, or will it always sting every time she leaves. Decide if you can.
Don’t fall for the sh&t if she can send out emails stated that she want to have sex w/someone and went as far as telling the man that she love him she most definitely will sleep w/him if she had the chance. You just caught her before she could. I would be really upset at the fact that she is telling another man that she loves him when she took a vow to obey and honor you for life. And believe me if it happen once it will happen again.
Yeah, right. Don’t believe her nonsense.
Obviously, this woman is playing you for a fool. Dump her and get on with your life.
Tough one but it sounds like you have the email.
First decide what you want. Is it truely over for you? Could you liive with it knowing she slept with another man?
Decide. But keep in mind she has slept with others before you so it is not the end of the world as some think it is.
Then find out what happened and explain the honesty …no matter how much she doesn’t want to…is the only way to get past this. You will have to know everything to decide if you do want to stay.
But give it a try. You can always quit on her later but you can’t get back once you split.
And be honest. Maybe her sexual needs are greater. What did she want or need? What are you not giving her? Did you evern know?
Women are funny…they may want something…but consider it ‘bad’ and not want it from hubby. But you 2 are partners and you can both be ‘bad’ and ‘good’….as can she.
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