Cheating spouse?
Recently I found out my husband of ten years was cheating on me. We have two children both girls 9 and 3. About a week ago i found out that she works with him and she is only 20 years old and he is 31 she won’t be 21 until next year. The girl was only ten years old and that makes it very gross. She is just a kid she can’t be ready to take on a family. Right now my kids are not allowed around her because we belive it is to soon for them to meet her. He comes around all of the time with hickey’s on his neck. Sometimes i feel like this girl is first in his life. 2 weeks ago he worked the over night shift so he only seen them 2 days in two weeks. When he came to pick them up for the first time in two weeks he came with a hickey on his neck so i said i see you made time to see your girlfiend but not for your children. Am i for feeling this way? I just don’t know what else to do.
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Are you saying that she was 10 when the relationship started? I would keep your kids away from him because that makes him a child molester. If that isn’t what you meant to say, I still say this is DONE. Get an attorney, get pictures of him parading around with hickies on his neck and get custody pronto. Do you really want him to be an example for his children? Do what you can to get him and this ridiculous, selfish behavior away from them. This is very sad and he is a horrible, sick man. Your poor kids!
I think your marriage is over. I’m so sorry. This must hurt so much, but I think it will hurt less when you don’t have to wonder where he is all the time, and see him coming home with hickeys on his neck. It will be better for your daughters to see you being a strong role model and kicking him out. You don’t want them to grow up and think that suffering a cheating mate is the right thing to do. Your husband nulled his wedding vows. I think it’s time for you to ask him to move out (ask him to move in with her, and see how long it lasts, HAHAHAHA) and you need to see a divorce lawyer.
divorce
that’s what you do
plain and simple
damn, I would say punch him in the nose, but that might not get his attention, this is what frying pans were invented for, i can understand the young women, but to abandoned his family. Unforgivable.
May I just say how IMMATURE OF A MAN HE IS! Isn’t it sad the way some people are just selfish. First of all it’s disgusting that a man would leave his wife and children, did he once think about how this would affect your lives? Selfish, very selfish people these days. I think If I were in your shoes I’d feel the same way, but more angry. I honestly don’t think I would want my children around such a man what kind of roll model is that for your children? he’s a loser. With out bad mouthing him to the children I hope you can explain to them that their father is a very confused man, no wait just tell them your father has a SERIOUS MENTAL ILLNESS! this is not normal behavior for a mature person.
Divorce him….he has some growing up to do. She will dump him in no time and …..
he will come crawling back.
DONT TAKE HIM BACK
she will soon get tired of him, a girl of that age lacks maturity, and doesn’t know what she wants yet. he is trying to be younger, she obviously boosts his low self worth. unfortunately it’s your kids who have to suffer. i would send my kids over every chance i got, to show the home wrecker what it will be like once they marry or live together. maybe she will rethink it and move on. he is enjoying a fantasy right now, but this girl won’t stay with him for too long. think the thing to do is to drop the kids off over there as much as possible, will work wonders on their relationship.
sounds like your seperated now. and he’s not living with you and the kids. well we can’t pick the women they choose and though you may not agree your not him he;’s fine with this philly . Your also hurt and pissed off he’s left you so this anger is being hidden and camaflouge more within this young women you dont’ agree about. Either way this is his life and this is the girl he’s with presently. You just go on about your business and the kids and leave his stuff to him . you can’t make someoen stop seeing someone cause you don’t approve.
Sorry not the answer you wantd to hear. But its just a thought I get from reading what you have written and the anger.