cheating spouse?
What do u guys think about emotional cheating? is it as bad as phy ical? my husband met this woman he did’nt tell her that he was married now that she’s falling in love with her he wrote her letter and told her how much he loves her but unfortunately he’s married and will not leave his wife yet he’s telling her his life would never be the same. I found the letter he’s telling me that it was all words that he doesn’t mean what he said in the letter. I want to believe him but i feel so confused the words in the letter keep haunting me. what do you guys think? Please help
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That’s emotional cheating and it needs to be addressed. Basically, you two need to figure out why he went down that road of having an emotional relationship. Let him know that you are proud that he didn’t fall into temptation and let it become physical, but that the emotional cheating hurts. If he’s willing to talk, couseling may be a good option to help determine why this happened and change things. Otherwise it will be too easy for him to fall into his habit of talking to her.
its worse
wow…that’s definitely cheating….and probably even worse than physical…because sometimes guys are stupid and do things…but he really feels it……….i’m sorry
its worse if it was nothing he would have told you about meeting her….you dont tell someone you love them…
He was thinking enough about cheating to write something like that - he is just telling you it didnt mean anything because he got caught!
Emotional cheating is still cheatingbecause you are still thinking of another!!!
I think emotional cheating is MUCH, MUCH worse than physical cheating because emotions are involved. I would much rather find out my man f*cked another girl then hear that he loved her.
Cheating is cheating, there is no need to balance one against the other. Both are a violation of trust and the sacred vows of marriage (if you both are married that is). Even if you aren’t married, you made a committment to each other, and he violated that committment.
I think emotional cheating is SOOOO much worse than physical! Either one is unforgiveable in my book, but when there are feelings involved, it is worse.
Lots of counceling is going to be needed if you are gonna try to work through this. Good luck!
Hey and I can sell you the Brooklyn Bridge at a great price! HE IS LYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it is bad and you guys need to nip this in the bud right away and start working on this marriage, sorry but it is not just words, he has connected with this woman in a way that should have been channeled to you. find out where he stands and do what is best for YOU.cheers
I think your husband is being untrue to you and your marriage. If he is saying to another woman that he is falling in love with her, then , it is very obvious he is doing something wrong. There isn’t very much to be confused about here. He is either inlove with you or he is not. And you deserve better than that.
don’t believe him… the thing is now, he has to stop all contact w/ her if he really wants to spend the rest of his life w/ you, that’s the truth…
make him choose, her, or you, which means, cut off all contact w/ her…none at all…no phone, no internet, etc…nothing!
if he talks to her once more, it’s over, he can’t even tell her goodbye…it’s total cut off, or it’s divorce…
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Mary
yeah right….. doesn’t mean the words….. sure……
They are both hard to deal with.
I’d say he cheated on you physically….. and emotionally.
cause the letter states that his life will not be as good with only you…. when she leaves.
but if he gave that letter to her….. then how did you find it??????
hmm i can to relate to my ex b/f
men have a way of putting things into our heads especially when we a weak and vularable and knowing that we are in love with them so much and just leaving confused with unexplained answers
in my opinion i think he meant it or else he wouldn’t written it down
all i gotta say is to be strong and do wht you think that is in your own best interest
it is still cheating. He was deceitful to not only you, but to the other woman as well. If he did not mean it, then why did he do it? this has obviously been going on a while, and I take it that you have kids, this is usually what men mean by saying "his life would never be the same" meaning child support, and maybe alimony. and depending on your state you may be able to sue her for alienation of affection. Are you sure that they have not met? If this happened over the Internet, I would have a private investigator, or a computer whiz look on there for all things that he has written to her and possibly others.
That is definately really harsh, and cheating no less. I would feel so betrayed to read those words being written to another woman. I don’t know if i could ever be the same. i would always wonder if he was thinking about her when we were together..it’d be too much for me. I am so sorry you have to deal with this and I hope that this works out in your favor. Take care hun!
i think that emotional cheating is worse than sexual cheating. emotions are emotions, sex is sex. i would have handled it a lot better if my hubby would have just gone out and had meaningless sex with someone, but he didn’t. he had a relationship with another woman. cared about her. don’t believe his crap. you give him ONE chance to get himself together and save your marriage. if he’s not willing, leave him.
I think it’s worse, and it happened to me. At this point, all you can do is believe in his actions, not what he says. If he’s still with you, then that means he loves you & possibly that letter was just a ruse to get into that other woman’s pants. Men are like that - they can separate their love from their lust. If he cuts off contact with her and is all the more attentive to you, then maybe you could forgive him. Actions speak louder than words - always! Good luck.
first let me say sorry for what your going through…I am going through the same thing but my husband didnt meet this girl on the internet…Ummm i think that what you need to figure out is first does he love YOU??? does he show you affection or does he show alot of remorse for hurting you? If so and you love him then you need to figure out if this was to ever happen again if you could emotionaly deal with it and leave. unless some dramatic changes happen within him he will probley do it again. Emotional cheating is way worse than physical cheating but in my opinion they go hand in hand. good luck…remember you deserve much better!
He is a liar!
i def wouldnt believe him, i think you should be strong enough to just leave him now, because emotional cheating is worse than physical because you have an attachment to that person.
cheating is cheating.
emotional or physical.
both require some sort of emotion.
and both require a lack of respect for the partner.