my girlfriend cheated on me and i dont know what to do?
i just found out that the party my girlfriend is at apparently they were drinking which she told me she was quitting and has been sober since the start of September and i guess she got really drunk and there was another guy there and she made out with him and he tried to go farther but she said no and ran off crying then called me and told me. idk what to believe what to think i just dont know right now. i dont want to leave but i also dont feel like i can trust her at all now, and i told her straight up she isnt allowed to drink any more period. is this the right thing to do? im just confused and upset and never thought she would do anything like this to me
and by the way i never really told her she couldnt drink she was doing it herself and even though i didnt like her drinking cause i know how she can be, i just thought she should control herself… also ive on known for about an hour and i just dont know where to even begin on what to do
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Hi Jeremy,
When we imbibe too much alcohol we lose our inhibitions, tending to do and say things we would not normally do.
There is nothing wrong in drinking unless under the legal age. In your girlfriend’s case she was sober enough to get away from that guy and contacted you. Given these circumstances do not judge her or condemn her too harshly. She had the decency, courage and honesty to tell you. She made a mistake but contacting you like that says a great for the relationship you have.
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and decide to what extent these principles exist.
When the time is right and the opportunity presents itself discuss in a nice and non aggressive way how her behaviour made you feel.
if you really love her dont leave her
I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do but if she told you with out you having to find out from other sources before hand, then she loves you, if not, you can try to earn her trust back or just cut your ties from her and move on
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having never been in the situation myself im not really sure.
but i’d recommend that you discuss it wth her, i think you’ll both feel better about it if you do. thats my advice, its up to you whether or not you take it
Well the fact that she refused to pursue it any farther, and that she immediately called you says a lot. Sounds like she needs some support to fix this drinking problem of hers. That not to say what she didwasn’tt very wrong, but maybe helping her get back on her feet, and away from booze, could do wonders for her, and your relationship. The trust will need to be earned back, and it will be difficult for a while, but in the end, it sounds like she truly does care.
First, what’s a relationship if you can’t even trust her anymore?
She wasn’t suppose to be drinking, yet, she did it.
You should do what you feel is right. Think about it, Think deep. If you stay with her, how hurt are you gonna be if it happens again? & if you break up with her, you’d feel a lot safer carrying your heart away.
In my opinion, if she knew she wasn’t suppose to be drinking & did it anyway, she doesn’t care what you have to say about her drinking and what not. If she did, she would have backed away as soon as she’s seen the alcohol. But it was very brave of her to straight up tell you what went down.
Just do what you think is right. I’m sure you’ll get through this. If you break up with her, remember, you’re one heartbreak closer to your true love (:
and a bleeding heart only makes you stronger. <3
good luck.
oh man sorry to hear that,heres what you do,take a break,just tell her i think we need a break,just think about it,if you woulda done something like that what you think she woulda done?and the break will determine if she wants to be with you or not,when you tell her we need a break,dont call her or text her,wait a while,let her come to you,remember she cheated on you,even if she was drunk she broke one of the love commandments thou shall not cheat which should be number 1 on that list,if she calls you and tells you im really sorry baby blah blah blah,now at this point its up to you,how much you really like this girl,if you love her than i say forgive her,cause she told you atleast,most women wont,so she ovioiusly loves you too,and besides you always have a reason to cheat on her now,good luck to you my friend