I am having an extramarital affair, can you relate?
The first time I met Susan, I knew I had met my soul mate. From the moment our eyes met it was love. We hit it off immediately and can talk for hours. Actually the first time I saw her I just thought we would talk for a few minutes but one thing led to another and we talked all night. It have never met anyone who I could connect with inter personally so well. We just have so much fun together. There is just incredible chemistry. It took just a few weeks to tell her I am in love.
Trouble is we are both married to other people in good marriages. Can you relate? Has this ever happened to you? If so, how did you handle it? Did you leave your spouse or your extramarital lover?
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U R both in the midst of a serious infatuation. Affairs are indicative of a seriously troubled relationship with your spouse - they don’t happen in "good" marriages. You need to figure out why and deal with that. You owe it to your wife to at least try some counseling. I’d advise NOT telling your wife you are banging someone else - you carry your own water on that point.
I left wife #1 for someone I thought was better (serious infatuation) - this "someone" left me shortly thereafter. I did not go back to the old wife due to some insurmountable issues, but I found someone (who became wife #2) who was better than both the wife#1 and the "other woman". I got lucky and have been happily married for 26 years….
I would just leave Susan….
If you loved your new fling then you owe it to her to tell your wife the truth. There are consequences for your actions. Start acting like a grown up.
Ps. Remember your vows: Tell death do you part, for better or worse…
just keep nailing both of them and quit whining.
Well, how good can your marriages be? You’re both cheating.
This is mere infatuation. You need to stop being immature and go home to the Mrs. and start treating her w/ the respect she deserves.
What you did is no excuse for your actions. Your marriage has no room for a 3rd party.
The idea of "soulmates" is juvenile. But if you really think this woman who’s both a liar and a cheat is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with, then get a divorce and be with her. Actually, you two sound perfect for each other.
You’re getting something from Susan that you’re not getting fulfilled in your wife. It can and does happen obviously however this will and can explode in your face and are your prepared to take the consequenes?
No matter how unhappy you are in your marriage or do not think of your wife as your "soulmate", affairs are wrong, period. You cannot justify this affair with something as ridiculous as being "soulmates". You should be ashamed of yourself and don’t deserve your wife.